I do pretty well with girls, but as anyone else I get confused all the time. How do I know when I should chase a girl or let her go? Typically when a girl doesn't call me back, I erase their number and never call them again. Lately, I've been told from some girls that I am extremely intimidating...so, should I maybe not give up so easily on some of these girls? I know not everyone will like me but are they just nervous to call me back or whats the deal?
2007-02-24 10:48:30 · 9 answers · asked by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there could be many reasons why.. if you really like a girl you need to chase them, don't give up... if she doesn't want you to chase her she will tell you...
2007-02-24 10:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by nickydig9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, in your confusion, you could be letting the one right for you slip by. Women are not mind readers and there are reasons as to why somebody doesn't call you back. Perhaps they feel intimidated because you are too good to be true or they feel you expect way too much from a person. Some people just can't live up to the expectation that we falsely put out there. Reevaluate how you communicate with women. If you have some close female family members or friends that are girls you can ask their advice on how they would feel in things you say or do.
2007-02-24 18:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's definitely something to be said about persistence. I think that, if you hang in there long enough, you might be able to persuade certain girls to give you a chance that wasn't easily obtained at first.
However, some guys don't know how to get a clue and move on. If you typically fail to catch on to hints that girls drop, you should remember this and try not to be too aggressive.
But don't give up on one try, unless there are other indicators that the girl wasn't really interested in the first place. People forget to call back. Or they're scared and just need a little more time to know you.
2007-02-24 19:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by thenextvinnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should have asked what it is that makes u intimidating. I guess if u just relax then u won't come off as being so intense. U probably shouldn't erase the number for a pretty good amount of time after u've called or maybe even try once more before doing so. Good luck my man.
2007-02-24 18:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the girl you shouldn't give up so easily. If she doesn't call back ,call her and ask her out. If she likes you she'll accept,if not you can try again a couple of times before you give up. Be casual and friendly but not pushy.Just let her know that you like her.
2007-02-24 19:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by prettywoman_eks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "do pretty well with women...leave it that way" Don't get hung up with other people's insecurities. You are not going to be attractive to every woman you meet. it just doesn't work that way.
Maybe if you give women a chance to feel you out a little, the responces you will receive may be more positive ones.
2007-02-24 19:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's waiting for you to call again? Hmmmm.... interesting! Girls seem to like being chased and feeling wanted, so let them know you want them and call them. (just not too much that it makes you seem desperate - there's a fine line my friend)
2007-02-24 18:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by cm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes Kyle, do not give up chassing the babes I've done it my whole life it's truly paidoff
2007-02-24 18:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's something you will know
2007-02-24 18:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋