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OK my and bf david have been goin out for 4 nine months but the thing is over half of it was longdistance we havent been talkin as much now he has an atittude with me so we are having problems but he tells me he wanna make it work i told i was gunna call him back because of my minutes i called him back 15 mins later he gets mad and says i thought u were gunna call me back later then he puts this boy on the phone and i said to put my bf back on since he had an attiude i said ill call him back cause my mins then he said dont call back at all what should i do. while is is acting like a but there is this boy at my school who likes me what should i do

2007-02-24 10:45:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

Move on

2007-02-24 10:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0 0

First of all, let me say, any guy that doesn't treat you with respect doesn't deserve to be with you. So it took you fifteen minutes to call him back, why should that make him angry at you? It shouldn't. If he can get mad at you for something as small as that, then you should be worried about how he may treat you later on. He needs to respect you and give you a little bit of freedom. Believe me no matter how good looking a guy is or anything else, if he doesn't respect you, you will end up feeling miserable. And life is not about being miserable. Life is about having fun and enjoying the time you have. So if all he does is try to cause problems, then dump him! There are so many other guys out there in this world. Don't waste your time with someone who isn't going to treat you well. Also, there is no rule saying that you have to date someone. Why not try being single for a while? That way you can just be you and have some fun and believe me, when you are shining and happy, you will attract possitive people to you. Then you will meet a guy you can really get along with.
I hope that my advise helps you and I wish you good luck. Always remember: Never settle for less than what you deserve.

2007-02-24 19:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by vhaea 2 · 0 0

Sounds to me like he's playing head games with you. See how far you will bend for him. I was with a guy like that for 4yrs. And i wished i had ended it sooner. But not only does it seem like he's playing head games with you, but it also seems like he's trying to push you away as well. If this other guy at school would treat you alot better, i would break things off with your current b/f. Even if there isn't another guy, i would end it anyways, it's very unhealthy, and he could end up breaking your heart in the long run.

2007-02-24 18:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by tatugrl78 2 · 0 0

i hate to say this but you should break it off with him. if he cant be nice to you, then you cant be nice to him. it just doesnt work that way. you deserve better than that. and long distance relationships will never workout no matter how much you may love the person. its really sad when those things happen. but theres really nothing else you can do. go for the guy who likes you at school. he has to be way nicer than that other guy. <3

2007-02-24 18:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by truesayokay9 2 · 0 0

Seems like he hasn't grown up yet and if you don't do what he says he will throw a fit. But the good thing is kick him to the curb you deserve better and one day you will meet one who knows how to treat a girl.

2007-02-24 18:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think he told you not to call him back didn't he, there is your answer, you are free and clear of him, no obligations. he is looking for a new g/f but has you waiting just in case, don't be retarded. quit playing the games and find someone who respects and loves you. or not, just enjoy the time of having options. you can do anything you want to do. you got the rest of your life to be obligated.

2007-02-24 18:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i say that the old bf is probly cheating on you and he's tryin 2 scare you away from him. also, try goin out with the guy that likes u at ur school. who knows, u might like him more and he won't have anger problems. =)

2007-02-24 18:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by jbgoldengun 2 · 0 0

dont waste your time with the boyfriend - he is playing GAMES with you - he is IMMATURE and not respectful of you- find a hot boy nearer to where you live and then dump the old one by text!!!

2007-02-24 18:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Forget about him!!! It's time to get out of DODGE!!!

2007-02-24 18:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0 0

Get laid.....

2007-02-24 18:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1 0

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