ok so i have met this guy a few times we really dont know each other...but we hung out recently and hes cute and really nice. but i dont know what to do!? like do i tell him i like him or should i get to know him first...do guys like when girls tell them they like them or not....
2007-02-24 10:45:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I would hang out w/ him more, and see what he says or how he acts about/to you first. That way, you won't embarrass yourself by telling him you like him first, and then him maybe not having that serious of feelings for you. However, if he does like you enough to hang out with you more than just that one time, maybe he does like you! Just wait for him to tell you...he may be thinking it, just may be too shy to say it up front to you for fear of the way you feel about him. Him being the man, I think he should express his feelings first, (but that is just because I'm a girl and I would never tell him first, but that's just me)...I personally think that it gives a woman a more secure feeling when he recipricates first, because, for instance, what if you told him you liked him, and he, say, didn't respond or got up and left? How would you feel? Honey, just take it slow, he will come around, and once he does, you can express your true feelings too! Good luck with everything, and I hope this helps!
2007-02-24 10:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the exact same situation mate... I met this guy last year.... and we got to know each other and we enjoy each other's company and we share stuff with each other like CDs and stuff and I had fun getting to know him and yeah now I kinda have feelings for him and I dont know what to do. But id suggest you get to know him first b4 you try anything else.. Trust me you wont be disappointed in getting to know a guy you like alot well I wasnt now we're like really close
2007-02-24 18:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, for some reason most guys are not attracted to girls/woman that are too forward. They love the chase. Making it too easy for him may scare him away. Try just acting like his friend and see what happens from there.
2007-02-24 18:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by Laura C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always good to tell sumone u like them.. but i really think u should get to know him more...before u throw him off!
2007-02-24 18:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and get to know him more. If you have chemistry, he'll either ask you out or be too shy to ask you out. If he's shy, he'll give you clues...
2007-02-24 18:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you would like to get to no him better.......
2007-02-24 18:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go tell him you like him ,
2007-02-24 18:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by metal chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him
2007-02-24 18:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋