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My brother just used up all his times and all my patience. Now what? He's still my brother and I do love him but ........!!!

2007-02-24 10:44:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

J.P. You mean I've overdone it? mannnnn

2007-02-24 10:49:55 · update #1

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you can never over do forgiveness. and yes you love him but that doesn't mean that you have to like what he does.
forgive him as many times as it takes. believe me there will come a day when all that nonsense will stop.
and believe that what goes around comes around. he will get his due one way or another and the good part is you won't have to do a thing to bring it about, but say 'i told ya so....'

2007-02-24 11:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by polgara922 4 · 0 0

But read the verse a little more litterally and you'll see that it has to be 70 X 70 for the same thing. So, if he used your Madonna CD as a coaster, that only counts as 1 and the next would only be the next time he uses your Madonna CD as a coaster. You'd have to forgive him 490 times for using your Madonna CD as a coaster. Then if he reads your diary without permission, he can do this 490 times only.

Or you can stop being silly and realize that 7 was the number of perfection and Jesus responds to Peter's question about having to forgive 7 times by saying he must forgive 70 X 70. So Jesus wants us to forgive perfettississimente (Italian for "most most perfectly"). Not something we can actually do without his help, since he has forgiven us perfectly. Btw, this is the key. It is a call to respond to God's gift of mercy by being merciful.

P.S. Madonna was just on my mind today. I don't know if you have any Madonna cds, nor do I have anything against her per se.

2007-02-24 10:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Forgive and you would be forgiven some people do no longer seem to be attentive to that that's relatively an on the spot quote from Luke 6:37. And in case you theory this may well be a mistake, those observe are repeated in Matthew 6:14 and Mark 11:25. Forgiving others isn't a count of determination, that's an on the spot command from our Lord, which some seem to opt to forget approximately approximately or rationalize away. yet there's no way around this command. We won't carry grudges or save bills. we are obliged to forgive with an identical grace and kindness with which God forgave us. you may bear in mind Jesus telling a parable (in Mat 18:23) of the guy who owed his grasp 6 billion funds – no longer just about as much as we owed God. This guy became into forgiven his debt – basically as we've been forgiven. however an identical guy who became into forgiven lots would not forgive his co-worker who owed him .0001% of what he were forgiven! Jesus’ verdict became into that because of the fact the 1st servant would not forgive his buddy, he could be held in charge to pay his debt additionally. So the thoughts are sparkling; the two we could desire to forgive others or we are able to be held in charge for our costs.

2016-10-01 22:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by aubrette 4 · 0 0

Well actually that 70 X 70 is a parallel. In Genesis 4:15 we read "if anyone kills Cain, he will suffer vengeance seven times over". and Proverbs 24:16 says "a righteous man falls seven times, but rises again" So then Peter came up to Jesus and probably trying to sound impressive he said, "How many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times?", but Jesus said, "I tell you, not seven times, seventy-seven" (Matthew 18:21)

The point is not in exactly forgiving 77 times or whatever, but that Peter thought 7 was more than enough, but Jesus said that isn't even 1/10th as it should be.

2007-02-24 11:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

70 Times 70 = 4,900. So your telling me that you kept track of all the 4,900 times that you forgiven your brother. I think the other think that Jesus was trying to teach is not just 70 times 70 is forever. That there is another place in the bible where if you do not forgive then Jesus will not forgive you.

2007-02-24 10:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by jrealitytv 6 · 0 0

Actually, Fruitcake, JP is correct in his accuracy on that quote, but that's kinda missing the point.

Jesus had been asked by His disciples "How many times do I have to forgive?" The standard of the culture (set by the religious "authorities" of the day) was 3. In their question to Jesus, the disciples doubled that, and threw in an extra one for good measure: "7?"

Jesus said, "Not seven, but seventy times seven."

In other words, keep forgiving him until you lose track of how many times.

And then don't stop.

So, where were you in that process?

2007-02-24 11:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by barjesse37 3 · 0 0

i believe it was 70 times 7 but the point is not how many times to forgive but to forgive. JESUS set the greatest example.

2007-02-24 11:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

490 times for the same sin in one day (which is difficult) by natural human patience. after that, you REALLY need the fruit of the Spirit, patience.

2007-02-24 10:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Hey, Ray 6 · 2 0

Actually, by saying 7x7 he meant indefinately, but because I have a brother, I agree that he is DOOMED! LOL

2007-02-24 10:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by Starjumper the R&S Cow 7 · 1 0

Forgive is a fascinating concept. It has three layers. A. don't wish them to be hurt. (that is the one we aren't supposed to keep count of) B accept them as a friend if they repent. and C Give righteousness, for our sins (Only YHVH can do that)

2007-02-24 10:48:33 · answer #10 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 1 1

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