My boyfriend has been harping me to try anal for a while now.. we have sort of tryed and it just completely turns me off..
Just the thought makes me want to puke.. and yet so many people seem to enjoy it... any suggestions or weather it's worth another try or not?
2007-02-24 10:35:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
It's definetely worth it!!! I first tried it when I was a bit younger and the first time it felt strange but also pretty good. Now I absolutely love it, and my partner loves that it is now me requesting him to do it to me.
If you use a lot of lubricant on his penis and around and in your anus then you should be fine. Try doing it in missionary position, it's easier to control how far it goes in. Make sure your boyfriend goes really slowly and seriously only inserts his penis in about 1-2cm at a time. It can take about 5-10 mins for your muscles to be lose enough for him to be the whole way inside.
It can feel a bit uncomfortable as your anus is stretching, but once he is all the way inside it should begin to feel good, and then it should begin to feel great.
I find that it penetrates the vagina from behind, inside the anus and it is the same feeling as having your G-spot stimulated.
Also you mentioned above that you have briefly tried it- if you mean that he has only just started to insert and then stopped well this may be why you did not like it. I love anal, but I cannot stand even one finger just pressing or slightly inside my anus during vaginal sex, it just doesn't feel good, and yet you would be surpised how much better the whole penis feels inside you.
**Some women don't like it, but most of my friends do, so you should be ok, if it starts to get uncomfortable just start kissing and cuddling him and try touching yourself at the same time (it will get you in the mood quicker, and makes it feel incredible)
Good luck, and I really hope that you enjoy it as much as I do, as it is an amazing feeling- think regular orgasm x 100 :)
2007-02-27 20:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I was reluctant to try it when it was first introduced to me, but I grew to really enjoy it. The key is relaxation, trust and stimulation. The hardest part to get in is the head. It has to be slowly pulsed in. If it hurts, stop, have him pull out completely, and try again, slowly. A lot of lubricant has to be used, on both you and him. Vaseline is best. Never, ever go from the back door to the front door without washing thoroughly, you could get a very bad infection. He has to be patient and listen to you so that he takes his cue from you. When and if you are ever ready you'll let him know. I was lucky that my boyfriend did it that way. Some of the best orgasms I have ever had, I have had that way. :) But if it's not something you want, then don't do it. It's also important to do it when your bowels are empty. Otherwise it could be a stinky disgusting experience. I turned two of my girlfriends on to this method and immeadiately after they tried it this way, they let me know how much they enjoyed it.
2007-02-24 10:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Helo L#2, Wait 'til U feel comfor tabel w/ act & person. I will try it!
2007-02-27 03:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by PervyRetard 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oops sorry braille. I accidently hit the thumbs down instead of thumbs up.
I agree with braille.....
2007-02-24 10:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I like it. go slow it may hurt at first. just relax and use lots of lube
2007-02-26 17:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by markleo1977 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should try it
2007-02-25 16:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by pimpin 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u dont feel comfortable doing it, then dont. its that simple.
2007-02-24 10:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by braille 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋