i'm nearly 30 and i'm having the time of my life. me and my boyfriend go out and spend tons of money on each other. i love being spoiled and so does he. we don't have kids so we can afford it easily. i feel like everything is perfect. is it wrong that i may never feel that way (like i want kids)? i love being spoiled and i believe he does too.
2007-02-24 10:34:16 · 14 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex = kids right or wrong that how it happens does not matter what you want it just happens for most people
2007-02-24 10:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by derek48316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are happy the way u r then u shouldn't settle down. Wait untill u feel like u r ready. but dont wait till u r like 50 then u missed out on young couple love.
2007-02-24 18:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong. Who says you must be sacked down with Kids and marriage if thats not what you want. Enjoy your life and don't let anyone make you feel less because of singleness. I have some married friends who wish they could do it all over again and waited before they got married.
2007-02-24 18:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by levy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!
What the heck is this obsession everyone has with having kids and settling down before 25?
Are they insane? There's a whole big world out there. Go out and see some of it.
2007-02-24 18:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need strangers on the internet to endorse your lifestyle?
Having kids and settling down is a personal decision that everyone must make with their partner. Some people never do it.
2007-02-24 18:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no way, and i'm getting pretty peeved that there is so much expectation from society that women of our age should be having kids and settling down. it's so unaffordable at the moment, particularly in london and as a woman, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't
2007-02-24 18:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by blaquespice78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is wrong most people want kids, but I guess that it is ok to not want to have kids, but know that if you don't have kids now then it might be to late later.
2007-02-24 18:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by sunshineangel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not everyone needs to have children, since it sounds like you two are having fin, why don't you think seriously what having a child would do to all the care-free spending?
2007-02-24 18:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's not wrong, and if you like being spoiled and carefree, it wouldn't be wise to have children anyway.
2007-02-24 18:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by learning_to_live_616 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same, but older. I had a vasectomy for my wife's 30th. birthday.
2007-02-24 18:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by andy in greece 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋