its not like im trying to break them apart!!! im not flirting or anything. he doesnt even know. its just a feeling i cant control
am i ***** for liking him though?
2007-02-24 10:23:19 · 41 answers · asked by sofia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it isnt wrong at all...just dont act on your feelings or u will b in social trouble!!!!
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2007-02-24 10:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by redhead 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
feeling you cant control is the part that is not quite right. all the rest is fine and fair in love and war. :) but you do control how much thought you give to him and how much of your heart you give to him even if he does not know it. Falling in love is a myth. We do feel it when we fall in love but we make choices all along the way. Making the right choices prevents emotional pain later. Why waste the time thinking about him and loving him if he is not available...or go tell him and see what happens. Anything else is a waste of your emotional energy. Best wishes.
2007-02-24 10:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by rob k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this feeling its not wrong but its like you cant help but feel it physically.. what i did is to get my own boyfriend and it worked. i ended up being so attracted to him i forgot about the other guy. Its difficult but an honest answer is YES you would be a complete ***** if you went after him.
2007-02-24 10:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by nitenurse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can like him - just dont touch -
what turns around comes back around -
sometimes it better to admire from afar - as the real thing is not always the best deal - he can live out all your fantasies in a daydream - but the grass isnt always greener - he may have some really awful habits - like picking his nose and wiping it on the sofa or farting and snoring when he sleeps, OR EVEN making those embarrassing hmmmm groan sounds in the sack argghhhh -
good luck my deary
2007-02-24 10:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never anything wrong with being attracted to someone, that is natural. What we must not do is confuse attraction for emotions or feelings. It takes spending time with someone to develop feelings and emotions and you control that. Since he already has a girlfriend, you would be asking for trouble if you pursued him.
2007-02-24 10:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. This happens everyday. It's just like looking in a store window & seeing something you like knowing that you just spent your last money on something else. It's okay to look but don't touch because that can cause DRAMA! We both know that you're not looking for that, right? Hoped I helped. Best Wishes!!!
2007-02-24 10:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lania 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with liking the guy. If he and the other girl should happen to break up, then it's handy that you like the guy because you would then be available for him to date. Now if you tried to interfere with his relationship with the other girl because you wanted him for yourself, then that would be wrong. Doesn't sound like you are doing that though, so you are fine.
2007-02-24 10:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. You don't want someone else's man, do you? Even if he were free? So you like him. That's good because you're supposed to like your friends, aren't you? Not try and hook up...even if you aren't actively pursuing him. You think about it, don't you.
It's good to know what you like in a man and he's helped you define that part. Now take your adorable self out there and find someone for yourself! Good Luck.
2007-02-24 10:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to like someone who already has a girlfriend or is married for that matter. What is wrong is to act on it or to let it show. In my opinion to let your love hurt another soul is a sin and diminishes you. It's like spitting on your own feelings.
2007-02-24 10:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's perfectly fine as long as your not mean to his GF or don't break them up!
I liked a guy who had a GF once and it was all good!
2007-02-24 10:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by ♥~gracie girl~♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those varieties of human beings are selfish and insincere. I say "human beings" via fact it happens with the two sexes. women human beings do it too. they have relationships to have an substantial different for intercourse and motives different than love. A substantial different is only sources. A play subject. they only care approximately their own desires and not of their substantial different's. They use words like "love" to manage their substantial different into staying with them. yet they do no longer mean it. So in the event that they experience unhappy with their present day substantial different for any reason, they flow searching for human beings such as you to fulfill their desires with little regard for the thoughts of their mate, your self and human beings. they do no longer seem to be severe approximately having a dating. They stay interior the 2d, to have exciting, with little thought for the long term effects. you're clever to stay removed from him. they are in all risk to cheat on everybody they have a dating with.
2016-11-25 21:24:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋