I met this person and when I did I didnt really kno I liked him we were jus good friends then I started to look at him all the time and anytime a love song comes on I think about him! when im jus sittin there I think about him! I get all scared when im around him and jus want to make him laugh and stuff! I get jelous any time another girl makes him laugh! and when he hugs me I jus cant breath...my heart beats really fast when I see him!!! I dont know what to do?????
2007-02-24 10:15:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are infatuated with him. Love takes time to grow, so NO you are not in love. Your infatuation can turn into love though if he feels the same way about you and the two of you date for a while. Tell him how you feel!
2007-02-24 10:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him, you don't love him. You like him A LOT. Love is something much deeper, its when you share real experiences, good and bad, and when you change your life to bring happiness to another human being, when you support each other through good times and tough times. The person who ALWAYS holds your hair when you are throwing up after drinking all night, even though your boyfriend is passed out on the floor in the other room? The guy who rocks you to sleep when your grandmother died without trying to feel you up? When you look at him and know that you want to have children with him? Those things are love. That doesn't mean that you don't have strong feelings for him though. You do like him. However, beware that the image you have in your mind of him is the real him. The fact that you are nervous around him is a bad sign -- that means that he is really not your friend, that you don't really feel comfortable with him. Try spending laid back time with him, goof off and watch a movie, then talk about it, and see what he thinks. Talk about your parents and sisters or brothers, what he likes and doesn't like. See what kind of person he is, become friends. When you are comfortable with each other -- THEN you know you got the real thing.
2007-02-24 18:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by elise080601 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first try to become really good friends. A good friendship will always have trust. It does seem that you have, at least, a really big crush of this guy. I wouldn't do anything about it just yet. But do become friends. Try to do things together and talk to him. Maybe he'll feel the same way about you. A good friendship can only good up.
I hope everything works out for you and you two work out just wonderful! It did for me. :-)
2007-02-24 18:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by Raise The Bahr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not in love, then you're very, very much in deep "like".
Ask him on a "date", especially if it's a double date or a group dating situation. You don't necessarily have to tell him it's a date.
Get busy so you can stop torturing yourself.
2007-02-24 18:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by answerme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! u need to get to know a person before u can say u love them!
2007-02-24 18:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please oh please...love stinks you know that...yeah maybe you're in love ...that's how i exactly feel when i thought i was in love.....yeah you can tell i've just been into a really rough heart break that's why i hate to fall in love anymore...every word you say is exactly the same as how i feel before..then he ask me out..then yeah obviously we're going out...then he promises me stuff that just feels soooo much good....then we both feel that we were sooo much in love ..like love love oh it feels so good..but then before you know it...you broke up...and then your heart is broken..ouch it hurts so bad so please be very careful of how you feel. it's not that easy you know...yeah before i thought we will both never ever gonna break up because our heart is full of love but you see....you just can't predict the future that simple
2007-02-24 18:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him i love you.And if he says he isn't ready for that just pick your self up and find another guy that feels the same way.
2007-02-24 18:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curse him out. Then run away and hide. Those feelings indicate he's turning you into a Communist and/or a terrorist. Don't let that happen!
2007-02-24 18:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES OF COURSE=]
thats cute just keep hanging out with him and especially alone
2007-02-24 18:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by xxblondelove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think this' the first time you have this feeling.
Just let your feeling go free..
and hopefully you get the same from him . .
may you have the best luck
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2007-02-24 18:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋