Why and Why Not Asian Men and Black Women?

Question

Some opinions and realizations on why Asian men and Black women should and shouldn't date, and will and won't date.
It is true that Black women and Asian men are getting left behind in the dating and marrying area, but should these two date? In my opinion yes, but not because of the lack of partners in their own race, but because they share a common compatibility. Black women in media are being drug through the mud. We are seen as sexually overt (thank you rappers, and video vixens), gold-diggers, welfare recipients, etc. And Asian men are viewed as less than appealing, bookwormish, overachievers, racist (partially from upbringing by parents), etc. The biggest reason(s) I find that these to are most compatible is not because they have been both drug through the mud, but because we are both strongest at not only surviving in "corporate america" (thanks mostly to affirmative action), but on our own.

What do you think?

Not only that but we are both "Alpha". We both are strong willed and minded, focused and driven people. Why wouldn't we survive in a relationship. Yes, Black women are outspoken, but if we can be given a good reason and clear view on why we should back down by our significant other, I believe we would.
It's fear that keeps us apart (along with racism and stereotypes). Fear of what could be. Fear of rejection. Fear of happiness? Anyway remember now this is just an opinion, and I want to hear yours. Tell me from your perspective so this can be laid to rest.

when I say Asian sorry I didn't clarify i meant mainstream here.. Japanese, Chinese, Korean.

Answer 1

I think you should never blame your woes on a system you can't change, it will only give you an excuse to not try. rise above the negative thoughts and be a pioneer, if you want an asian guy, be determine to not let anyone deprive you of your dreams. it's not only rappers and video vixens that give the impression of black women having no morals, black women are all too quick to reaffirm that notion, a black woman at the mall had a shirt on last night that said "gold digger" I was with one of my sons and when I saw the shirt, being the kind of person with no brakes on my brain, I looked at her and said " gold digger huh" she and I laughed but it was still a very good point that it isn't only rappers that promote that idea. if you don't respect yourself, how can you expect your men to respect you ? and if you are the only one that stick to their belief and do not buy into the hype, you will be setting an example, you may die an old spinster but you will leave behind the energy that it took for you to stick to your beliefs and you will effect someone. if only yourself, you will know you were a true and just person. as the blacks like to say, don't hate the player, hate the game, without players , there would be no game, it's all BS in otherwords. decide you are in charge of your destiny and act accordingly.

Answer 2

I am neutral on the subject. I don't think any two races, or even the same race, are naturally compatible or incompatible. It depends on the individual and to a lesser extent, on the culture. I don't care who dates whom. What does piss me off is when people say they refuse to date an entire race of people because of how they've been portrayed in the media.

Answer 3

I am still trying to figure out how skin color and race has any bearing on how compatible two people are with each other. If two people have common interests, get along and care about each other, race and skin color have no bearing. Why make an issue where there shouldn't be?

Answer 4

Im a Korean guy and I prefer black women to Asian women.
Im up for it. Yeah I espeically like them Caribeen women. Asian women are whores. Black women seem to be much nicer and less demanding. But sadly black women hate Asian guys. Many Asian guys are attracted to black girls but not the other way around. I wish they were more black girls who had the hots for Asian guys especially Korean guys.

Answer 5

Dr. Spencer Wells-Geneticist,There is Only 1 Species of Human Being.We are all related weather we like it or not.
It is man making and labeling Races,Which makes Racists,Bigots and creates separatism.No matter whom your with,if they make you happy and you love them,then be with them.Bottom line,Be Happy with whom your with.Example Tigar Woods,Have a Great Life.

Answer 6

Dating has to do with mutual attractions between two human beings. God made men and women with body parts that connect to become one. So, think about it. It really dosen't matter what race it is.

Answer 7

when you say "Asia" or "Asian"...what nationality do you mean? Just to let you know that Asia is a big CONTINENT consisting of many countries like India, Pakistan, Sr Lanka and of course the common one, China....

Be specific...

Answer 8

if two people really like each other then i guess all other issues like ethnicity take a back seat,what matters in the end is how both of them get along with each other

Answer 9

People who like each other should date.

Answer 10

I did not read your whole story just the beginning on thing I tell you do what your heart tells you to that is it.