Ok I asked this question before but I guess I didn't use the right words...let me start by saying I am a sexy (that's what people say) tall, latin girl... I tend to intimidate a little bit. I smile a lot and laugh a lot... PEOPLE THINK I AM FLIRTING WITH THEM ALL THE TIME!!! how to stop this, I am not touchy or too friendly, I am just me, I say hi guys, and they are like wow... and they think I am, flirting, when I am not...
How to stop this...??
2007-02-24 10:12:04 · 10 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't stop it. just be yourself. why should you change your personality just because someone mistakenly thinks you are flirting with them. They may not think you are flirting with them; they may think that you are hot and that my be the reason they go wow. They may realize that you are out of their league, but still be taken back by your feminine style and finesse.
2007-02-24 21:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what guy wouldn't like a pretty, sexy and bubbly latin girl to smile at them and say "hi"? Of course they think you are flirting with them, they are hoping you are!!! How to stop this would be to not pay so much attention to the guys and not be quite soooo friendly! Watch your body language too.
2007-02-24 18:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to watch your body language. Try crossing your arms over your chest, leaning your body away, and not looking directly at people when talking to them. Don't say hi to every person you come across. If you're less accessible, then maybe guys will get the hint.
If you already do this, then maybe you think too much of yourself to presume that everyone thinks "Wow" when they see you. Or maybe you ARE all that and just have to accept the fact that you will be constantly hit on by guys. By the way, what are you doing Sunday night? Want to come over for an Oscar party, just me, you, and a bottle of bubbly?
2007-02-24 18:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by am_i_helpful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asking for advice on how to stop being you... and the answer is do not stop being you... You have a good mind in everything you do... whoever find it hard to relate with you the way you are should keep the distance.
Look around for those who appreciate you and spend more time with them... like that you would not have to bother about those who think you are flirting.
2007-02-24 18:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by agboola f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is fake and that is not a problem but you need to learn that after flirting you have to deal with the consequences later...
Basically, the dude will say "hey where is that sl!tty girl who was about to put out...I know she wanted me because she was flirting like she wanted it".
Do you get my point?
2007-02-24 18:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probly just your personality its not necessary a bad thing im the same way i know it sux sometimes but its ok
2007-02-24 18:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by idolize lita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
less eye contact, touching..
i don't know. if you say hi to everyone you aren't flirting with everyone
2007-02-24 18:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by xsrhx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!! Are you flirting with me? :-)
2007-02-24 18:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont. be who you are. im like that too. dont worry about it.
2007-02-24 18:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say hi duh
2007-02-24 18:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by wassup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋