Why was I ever born?

Question

I was so mad that I was ever born. I hate my parents for having me. My life has had some many challenges, and every time I have a challenge I take my anger out on my parents for having me. Life isn't easy. They are a bunch of foolish jackasses for having me, so I am planning to make their life miserable. They won't see me ever after the day I leave for college. What the hell are parents anyway? They are just there. I don't see the point of life, but don't tell me I'm 1 step away from commiting suicide, because I'm not.

Answer 1

I suggest you talk to a counselor.a minister or seek help that is all I will say.

Answer 2

Ask a young minister that question. And with time, your attitudes change. Sounds like you're 2 steps away from commiting suicide. Oh and one last thing: life is easy for NONE of us. The only difference is how the individual copes. Some folks deal with stuff, other folks pout in their parents room rueing the day mom and dad got a sperm and egg to come together. I guess you're the latter not the former, eh?

Answer 3

when I started reading this I was shocked, to here what you had to say about your parents, then I got angry, about your attitude,
You sound like the most misrable person I have ever heard of, I hope things get better for you but you are the only one who can change things in your life. If you are not one step away from suicide, then I don't know who is, Your parents could have had an abortion, beat you , mentally and sexually abused you. So Maybe your life isn't as bad as you think.

Answer 4

You should be happy that they gave you a home and food! some people don't have that luck. Your parents are always going to love you, and you hating life ain't going to make it easy er. Life is always going have some challenges you just have to find a way to take it on. Just remember that there are people out their that have it bad er. Trust the more you get over the fact you hate life the better life well get. You have to enjoy life to have a life.

Answer 5

Okay, I won't tell you that you are one step away from suicide. I will believe you when you say you aren't. You do sound depressed though. I am guessing that you will say that talking to a counselor is stupid or a waste of time. If that is how you feel, then may I suggest that you take your anger that you have for your parents, and prove to them that your life is worth all that and a bag of chips, despite how you and others may feel to the contrary? Live your life, find something you don't want to do but you know is a positive thing for others to do, and then do it. Don't do it with the aim of making yourself happy, because clearly, you don't sound like you want to be happy. Do it because YOU CAN - not because you want to. Do something noble and good because you CAN. Do something productive because you CAN. I would just like to encourage you to take all that negative, self-hatred attitude of yours and pour it into something that OTHERS would consider positive. Why do it for yourself, when you clearly don't like yourself? Do it for others instead. Punish yourself by being productive and doing something that is good for you, even if you hate it. By doing these things, you will not be living up to anyone's expectations of yourself, but you will be surprised at how things turn out when you have done these things. Please consider also talking to a counselor - even if it is just to prove to you, your parents and anyone else, that you don't need a counselor.

Answer 6

sure your upset, life isn't easy for any one of us even for us parents, and no i don't think you are 1 step away from commiting suicide sure you may have many challenges in your life right now but please don't blames your parents and take your anger out on them, if you can talk to them sit down and talk to them let them know whats going on in life your parents really care about you

Answer 7

hey please calm down and listen friend............ every thing happens for a reason and u r here is this world now so think how to make it better for ur self instead of finding some body to blame put the past behind u and look forword for ur future have a positive prospective try to think of a successfull futur for ur self and set ur eyes on how to live the life on ur dreams and when u do u will change ur opinion about ur life and most importantly ur parents

Answer 8

Sounds like you have figured out the fine line between love and hate and you cross that line. So I feel so sorry for you to learn that at a young age. So try to get help so it don't run your life.

Answer 9

Well, unfortunately, yours was the little sperm swimmer that swam the fastest.

So blame the little tail that propelled you through that fallopian goolag that held you prisoner for 9 months.

You can also blame God for giving you a soul (if you believe in that stuff), blame your parents for not aborting you before you were ripe enough to come out, blame mom for not naturally miscarrying you, blame your dad for being horny enough to lay with your mom, and blame your mom for getting drunk enough to have a romp in the hay with your dad.

So, in conclusion, blame everything and everyone.

Answer 10

well to tell u the truth i feel that way too but just try and make the best of it as much as possible. go out and do something fun.. have a good time with ur friends just dont do anyhting stupid or something u will regret.. dont kill yourself thats one of the dumbest things to do.. just be a better person to those around u it works...believe me

Answer 11

i encourage you to become a member of my yahoo group. the site is www.groups.yahoo.com/groups/
help4teens

once you are a member, you can go under the links section and view sites having to do with teens needing help by clicking on them. check it out. it is hard being a teen i know but hang in there. you have a long life ahead of you. don't do anything to mess it up. good luck.