How do I stop it, I mean, the way I walk, the way I smile...the way I giggle, laugh... Like for example, I was with my date and he took me to eat ice cream, and there was a new ice cream so the guy who worked there offered us if we wanted to taste it, my date said no, I said ok, so the guy gave me a spoon with some ice cream, and i grabbed it and the way I put in my mouth was very sexy... I mean not on purpose... But how can I control my flirting behavior...
Don't take me wrong I love to be a ble to flirt so good, and I DON'T FLIRT FLIRT (meaning I don't talk to guys like flirting because I have a bf... but my actittude is what bothers me sometimes...)
I just want to control myself, so other people don't think I am flirting with them...
THANK YOU
2007-02-24 09:52:09 · 5 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg!!! nooo i am not touchy or too friendly, but like i intimidate people and they like it... i am sorry I am just a latin girl, and I SMILE A LOT, and laugh a lot, i have a bubbly personality
2007-02-24 09:59:46 · update #1
some of us r just sexual beings by nature. simple gestures are perceived by others to be "flirtatious" when that's not our intention at all. there's nothing u can do about it. if it's in u, it's just in u. the way u speak about it though, even u think u have a problem. so ask ur self, do u do some of the things that u do to get a response from someone? or r u just being u. if you're just being u, then u don't have an "uncontrollable problem". u said that your attitude bothers you, so u need to think about what u need to change about urself. people r gonna think what they wanna think either way. maybe they are the ones that need to work on some issues instead of you!! To all the SEXY ladiez in the house, do what u do n do it WELL!!
2007-02-24 10:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you have something in your past that has caused you to begin acting like this. I really think you need to find a counsellor and they'll help you identify what happened and help you work it out of yourself. You're at least intelligent enough to see that you have a problem that is going to cuase problems for the rest of your life so go do something about it...you just need a pro.
2007-02-24 17:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. What you are calling flirtatious other people call being feminine. You will find a boyfriend that is self confident enough not to be offended by you femininity. Everybody likes a bubbly personality so don't change.
2007-02-25 05:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o'cmon i know it nice to say i subconciously flirt...yea but how often and how subtle that people started to notice..
if u wanna start wth something try not be overly friendly or being too touchy
2007-02-24 17:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by heleanthusovulia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i told a girl that i liked her,she said she liked me but didnt want a relationship right now.But she stil flirts and leads every guy on and is even going to the prom with a guy and she claims to be going as just "friends".Yeah well screw her,she is just a tease and so are you.I AM TIRED OF GIRLS LIKE YOU SCREWING WITH MY HEAD
2007-02-24 17:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋