I hate living in my house and i am only 14. What should I do???

Question

I am just really anoyed with my parents, and i don't know what to do, should i just lock myself in my room, and basicly "ground" myself from everyone? and should i just talk to friends at my computer? PLease help this is kinda annoying,

Answer 1

join the club im 14 and i hate living with my parents to....thats y when im 16 im moving in with my friend cj


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Answer 2

Dude seriously, at 14 NO ONE likes living at home. You've just got to suck it up and deal with it until you're a little bit older.

Unless there's some sort of abuse or other such serious reason for you to get out of the house immediately, then you just need to take a deep breath and smile and turn the other cheek. Parents may seem "annoying", but in the long run they're the ones who will have your back and are always looking out for your own good.

Locking yourself in your room and talking to people on the intranet doesn't make you seem "cool" and "mature" to your parents, you're just going to have them on your back for spending all your time holed up in your bedroom, and chances are that they'll get suspicious of your "loner" tendancies.

Take everything a day at a time. Good luck.

Answer 3

Maybe you should join a club after school, or a spring sport. That way you either have a club after school or practice and you wont be home untill late. Also, you can just hang somewhere else, like at a friends house or go to you public library to just get away. I wouldn't reccomed locking yourself in your room, your just wasting all that time, when you could be doing something else with your life and enjoying the time you still have to be 14.

Answer 4

Welcome to being a teenager! Every adult out there has experienced what you are going through at one time or another in their teenage years. My own son, age 17, locks himself in his room sometimes and plays video games or goes to his MySpace and talks with his friends who live in the state we used to live in. All you can do is just do the best you can. You are part of a family, and learning to put up with the way your homelife is will prepare you for life on your own someday. In the adult world, you have to learn to deal with difficult bosses or co-workers or college teachers etc. What you are experiencing just means you are doing what you are supposed to be doing. You are getting ready to grow up. If you liked everything the way it was, you would be less likely to want to grow up and move out when the time came because you liked everything as it was. You are coming into your independence. It's normal and healthy. It stops being normal and healthy when a teen completely shuts him/herself off from the rest of the family all the time, is extremely grumpy around the family or refuses to interact at all with family members. Just try to find your own space, tell family members as nicely as you can that you just really need your own space, and then come out for air now and then so your parents don't worry. It will all be okay.

Answer 5

Well you obviously dont have it too bad if you have a computer in your room.....and who cares my mom dosnt treat me the best but i still respect her very much and do what she says.
If it wasnt for them you wouldnt be here so try to think of it like that.
And If you get in a bad mood then yea just lock yourself in your room turn on the music til you feel a little better thats what i do and it usually works.
Just remember that your parents do love you....and i know you love them but show some respect.

Answer 6

Yes. Stay in the room your annoying parents have provided for you and talk to your friends via the computer, electricity and telephone or cable lines they provide for you until you get too hungry, then go and eat some of the food they provide for you and go back to your room until you can be appreciative of your annoying parents.

Answer 7

Well you could move to a state where the legal age for marrying is 14. Get a girl pregnant, marry her, get a job for minimum wage, don't graduate high school, have lots of kids, drink beer and watch television for the rest of your life ... but at least you will be out of your parent's house.

Answer 8

Guess what I was 14 once and felt the same way, most do and I now have a 15 year old that feels the same. Guess what....deal with it the things they do they do for your own good and to help make you a strong better person in your adulthood. You will thank them one day.

Answer 9

This is just something that all teenagers seem to go thru, or atleast most of them anyways. Someone told me once to just bide(sp) my time and do what i'm sapposed to do and focus and doing the responsible things that will get you to where you want to go which is out of the house, and that requires money. So you should pretty much get the drift right, good luck and relax ok, remember life is 10% what happens to you and 90% what you make of it, thats one of my favorite sayings, which i'm sure you'll grow to admire to. good luck Kim

Answer 10

Well i went threw the exact same thing. Just try to get out of the house more and stay away from your parents. Let them know that you really need space from them. If they arent willing to give you that space, then just tell them straight up that you cant take them anymore.

Answer 11

Respect your parents you only have 4 more years to be able to move out. Let me tell you with out a great paying job to take care of yourself you won't be able to make it out in the real world. Go to school, study hard, Don't be fresh and try to understands why parents are hard on you. When you get to my age you'll wish you respected them more. I am a parent and now I understand what they went threw.