Are you a skinny mom or a fat mom or in between.?

Question

I just read a question that the woman said she was upset because fat ,nasty women , that are bad moms because thier kids miss behave at walmart drive nice SUV's and have a house. I was very shocked at the comment.

Im not thin but not real bad yet BUT i am 18 weeks pregnant. I dont think only skinny moms are good moms. I happen to be a good mom that works very hard to suport my children.

I have an SUV and own my home.

OMG the first answer has my attitude. So sorry about the loss of your baby though sweetie. God bless you, and your fluffyness... lol

If you want to see the question here it is.......I

am VERY curious as to how some women who?
0 In Parenting - Asked by unsure - 13 answers - 53 minutes ago - Open

hahaah Mummy tummy thats cute.... I call my stretch marks my baby road map lol

I WENT TO HER ID ............ READ A TON OF HER QUESTIONS. SHE IS VERY WORRIED ABOUT WHAT OTHERS HAVE. SHE SAID IN SERERAL SHE WAS A STAY AT HOME MOM ( DIDNT SHE BASH STAY AT HOME MOMS? OR JUST THE FAT ONES?) sHE WENT FROM 26 TO 32 IN 4 DAYS , CHECK OUT HER OTHER QUESTIONS. MAKES IT ALOT MORE CLEAR .

Answer 1

I am a 27 year old mother to one child who is 5 years old. I am married and yes i am a stay at home mom because i choose too. Yes i do own my own home but i do not drive an SUV. I do not like those vehicles, i am into cars. I drive a mustang. I weigh 120 pounds. Weight has nothing to do with whether you are a good parent or not.
Living in a fine home will not make you a good parent either.
It does not matter what you have afterall they are just material things.
My son behaves when we go to walmart. I really don't care though what people have to say about me cause i know what i am and what i do.
I am a good mother and i do not have to prove it to no one.
It does not matter where you have lived in this world or whatever, that does not make you a better person or a better parent.
What makes me mad is someone acting like they are better when in reality they are truely pathetic for acting like a kid saying "i have this or that" and that makes me better than you.

People getting upset over that person's question, some of them talk the same exact way on here.

Answer 2

How rude. A person's ability to be a good parent is not based on their weight or possessions. My mom is quite heavy and just recently had lapband surgery and she is becoming skinny again. I have my father's genes and I was only 122 lbs when I gave birth. I had gained the recommended 30 lbs. 3 days after I delivered my son I was 100 lbs. and my metabolism sped up so now I am underweight and trying to gain. I actually get accused of being anorexic. >:l My mother was incredible when she was skinny and when she was fat and I take after her and I am a pretty darn good mom even though I'm a boney little butt. Lol... Don't listen to whoever said that. She's full of what I like to call, poo. But in other terms. I make sure my family has nice things and we live in a nice home but that has nothing to do with the fact that I'm skinny.

Answer 3

That chick is an idiot. Good moms can be fat, skinny, happy go lucky, even a mental wreck. Same with bad moms.
Ive seen kids misbehave all over the place with different kinds of moms and sometimes kids "misbehave" bc theyre tired or other reasons, not just because the mom is a bad one.
I am a thin ,mom. Im 5ft3 and weigh 108 (bmi....19.1)
My kids are overall great kids. They share, they dont hit or bite. They arent always the most pleasant to be around, they are still KIDS that behave like KIDS. I have a friend who is overweight. She is a good mom. Very into her kids and isnt violent or mean. Her kids are average kids. Not the best there is but are also not the kind to bite or hit.

Answer 4

Um, I don't know what I am. "Curvy" now? Haha...

Well, I have a very petite frame/body structure...I'm barely 5'3" and I was 110-115 lbs before I got married! Then I gained some weight and I was about 130-135 lbs before I got pregnant. And I don't consider that chubby at all...I have a very curvy body (I'm small-boned, but have curvy hips and boobs and butt). So anyway...after I had my daughter, things went a little nuts. She was born 12 1/2 weeks early and was in the NICU for 4 months...during that time, I didn't do ANY exersizing at all...I slept, ate, lived in the NICU next to her bed, day and night. I lived off hospital cafeteria food (which is SO not healthy) and anyway...so now I'm like 155 lbs. =/ I've just recently started my pilates workout again and am eating very healthy usually. I actually look good though, since I have curves anyway. But yeah...it's time I lost this "fluff".

Anyway...where was I going with this?? =P So yeah, that's pretty ignorant of that woman to say something THAT lame. *shrug* Judgmental people bug me.

Answer 5

I got very upset about that question. It was a generalization that has no basis whatsoever! How does the asker even know these women have husbands who take care of them? Is she aware thin woman also do this? I don't know people like that drive me crazy. It's just ignorance. I'm an average mom. I don't think I'm skinny or fat for me I'm just right for me. I weigh 140lbs at 5"9. I also drive an SUV, like going to WalMart, and a nice home.

Answer 6

At 5 71/2 and 150 I am certainly not what I was at 18 but I have boobs now{which I didn't at 18} And am what my husband thoughtfully refers to as pleasantly round. I have come to except the fact that the size 7 pants I wore and tiny teas are not longer a wardrobe option but I like to think that I fill out my size 10 jeans all rite even with my "mummy" tummy. I just don't wear shirts and pants that show off that particular area. Power to the mommy tummys! wear them proud ladies !Lets take back the world from the tooth picks

Answer 7

ha ha ha... i read that question and had alot to say.. especially to star who thought that the women trapped the guy to marry her when she was skinny then got fat on purpose and crap. Right now I am fat... I'm not going to lie... and right now I don't mind b/c my baby is healthy and when she comes out.. i will be losing my weight. My husband and I have said that after I was done having my kids, he will help me lose my weight... IF I WANTED TO, b/c he didn't care b/c he loves me for me.. not how i look. even with me being overweight i still get alot of compliments and still have men hitting on me. I used to be 103Ibs prior to me ever being pregnant.. and I had never been overweight before. I love exercising and I love being active. With my first pregnancy I had complications, was put on bed rest, and the doc wouldn't let me do my walking around or anything that had to do with exercising, i lost my first son during labor, so after that i was to depressed to do anything... i weight 150 after I gave birth and when i got pregnant with my second child 7 months later i weighed 135 b/c i was in the military and went to pt all the time, after birth i weighed 185, now I am on my baby girl.. and last child for awhile atleast, and i weight 172. and i'm 31 weeks prego. So its not because I ate junk food and eat so unhealthy... i eat my 6 meals small meals a day, i live on the third floor and go up atleast three times a day, i walk with my son to the park and play and i am very active and plan to lose as much as i can after my 6 months with my daughter... and not until then.. so i don't understand ppl like her and ppl who think fat ppl are all slobs, very dirty and always have a basket full of junk food, and very nice cars. i do have an suv. but that means crap... i am having two kids.. should i have a small two seater? more kids mean you need vehicle to fit them into...

Answer 8

I think that was a harsh comment but i can get annoyed with really heavy moms or not even heavy but there just not taking care of them selves or there children and they sit in walmart mcdonalds well there kids run around screaming and they pay no attention to them not only are the kids very bad behaved but there also at danger cause no one is watching them and ya sometimes they have fancy kids stuff and nice new cars because that makes them feel more full filled

Answer 9

i am neither fat nor skinny i am in between . i have a mommy tummy. 4 pregnancies in 9 years will do that. now women like the one i saw on tv last night who are 900 pounds are bad parents in the fact that they cant parent. kids are left raising themselves and caring for the parents. or like the mom on dr phil last week who weighed 500 plus pounds ans demanded her 15 year old quit school to wait on her. morbid obese parents in most cases are bad parents. never judge people you dont know whats going on in their homes and bodys their weight could be a medical problem. like thyroid trouble

Answer 10

I am pretty skinny but not like stick skinny. According to m doctor jsut normal.

I have seen fat moms that jsut seemed outwardly lazy. They would jsut tell tehir kid everything to do, wouldn't help with them, or play with them however I have a good friend who is a large woman and so attentative to her daughter, and my mom was fat too and spent lots of time with us and we never miss behaved in stores.