Ok, i am in middle school. 6th grade and whenever i see a boy i like or have a boyfriend i want to have sex woth them, I HAVE NEVER HAD SEX IN MY LIFE PEOPLE! And i don't know why i think of this. Please tell me why i do this. and please do not say i am too young to be thinking of this. or don't say do it. thanks.
2007-02-24 09:44:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your MOTHER... NOW!!!
2007-02-24 09:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Pony dude's girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, guys are going to do everything they can to take advantage of that. But believe me, you will lose *all* respect. Wait until you finish high school; it'll be hard, but it's a self-taught lesson you'll always appreciate. Life is full of hardships and temptations; you need to be strong enough to resist them. And trust me, guys will definately appreciate you and want you more.
No, you're not too young. I mean, you are kind of young, but so was I. The only advice I can give you to make it easier, would just "pleasure yourself" whenever you're overcome with the urge. I know that seems kind of vulgar, but if that's what it takes, it *will* pay off.
If you're *really* concerned, and don't want to have sex, you could always go to a (female) family doctor, and (privately) ask the doctor if you and she could have a moment without your parents. I'm sure there's something she would be able to suggest that would help you, and it would remain discreet, without anyone you know ever finding out :)
Anyways, I'm not sure what help I would be, but if you ever need to just vent or could use some more encouragement, always feel free to send me a message, or anyone else pretty much.
2007-02-24 18:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jared C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay baby,
step one, Calm down,
realize its all about hormones, and its completely normal, I'm not going to tell you that it will pass, because it wont, not for a long time anyway.keep in mind its your choice.
step two, do you think your ready?
step three, if so than be safe and go for it, if not it wont kill you to wait a few years, and there is always masturbation, honestly masturbation will be more satisfying than sex with a boy your own age.
I had sex for the first time in the fifth grade and I didn't see the point in it but I learned after I turned 14 it can be lots of fun when you both know what your doing.
2007-02-24 17:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
BECAUSE u r young (i am in 6th grade too) and that is just the kind of stuff we see on TV and it looks so good we want some too. DO NOT hvae sex, u r too young, but nobody knows what u r thinking so please feel free to picture you naked n top of a boy.
2007-02-24 17:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Project Runway Lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants to have sex, its human nature. But if you start in 6th grade having sex with every boy you like, you are going to get a reputation that will most likely stick with you.
You need to wait, I don;t know when the right time is for you, but its definitely not in 6th grade.
2007-02-24 17:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means you're growing up, and puberty is rearing its head. There's nothing wrong with it; it's natural and it happens to everyone. You're not too young, but you are inexperienced, so try to take these feelings slowly; otherwise, you could wind up hurting, or possibly embarrassing, yourself. However, I recommend that you start reading up on adolescence and try to find a way that will help you handle it in a way that suits you. Besides, anyone who says that you shouldn't go exploring on your own (I'm assuming that you know what I'm talking about) is a hypocrite or an idiot, because they've probably done it themselves. Just relax, think about it, and try to learn more. But don't worry about it, okay?
2007-02-24 17:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 14 now and in 9th grade, but when I was in 6th & 7th grade I thought about and wanted to do it too( I think that this happens because its around the time that most people have their period, and their hormones start to flare up), but don't do it, you will regret it for the rest of your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-24 18:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by Caitlin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are much too young to be thinking of sex. You are what less than 16. It shouldn't even be on your mind.
2007-02-24 17:48:00 · answer #8 · answered by ccourtne_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that children your age are over exposed to sex way to young now Its on your minds. Its very sad
2007-02-24 17:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing in 6th grade, and its perfectly normal. DON'T have sex yet, but dont worry about it either. Think about it all you want, your going to be fine.
2007-02-24 17:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by Allison A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know you dont want people to say yourtoo young,but in general you are too young for sex.for petes sake child your only about 12 yrs old.what i think is that you hear so much about it on tv,from your friends and on the internet,but you got alot of time to think about sex.
2007-02-24 17:59:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋