What would you do differently at your wedding if you could have that day over again?
2007-02-24 09:41:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If I could have my wedding day over again, I would spend more money on food, less on flowers, I would have worn my hair down, and I would have worn flat shoes instead of heels. Otherwise, it was a great day. And the marriage itself has been great!
2007-02-24 13:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by EvaKate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the 1st. 2 answers. What I would do is not have a big wedding.It's a terrible waste of money.The thing that matters is the bond . Whether it's in front of a JP or 200 hundred people ,the champagne,the violins ,the doves, the video, it just doesn't matter.You will always remember the day you got married
2007-02-24 18:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would listen more to my mom and less to his (lol). Actually, the only regret I have is including all of his sisters because it was a difficult task to get together and coordinate so many people in my wedding party. But his mother insisted, in tears, on several occasions....and then objected to the choice of ushers so that we added an additional bridesmaid to make her happy---turns out the sisters could have cared less.
2007-02-24 18:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have stressed so much over little things...after 10 years and 3 kids I am amazed at what I thought was so important that it would just ruin my day if it wasn't right. I realize now that the most important part was marrying my husband and starting our life together. The trimmings don't mean that much now...but the relationship still does!
2007-02-24 17:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That I'd remembered I had a very pretty cream silk suit w/ lace overlay hanging in my closet to wear instead of borrowing a suit from my soon to be sister in law.
..oh maybe not have my brother run the video camera..he had the blasted thing on a tripod and followed me down the aisle, it looked like we were having a earthquake, then the battery died and we got none of the ceremony.....
or when my mom said she'd take the pictures make sure that she made it clear she'd take the pics and make herself a set then give me the negatives so I was ready for it.
2007-02-24 18:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing at all. it was perfectly unperfect and I wouldnt change a thing. I wasnt concerned with planning, detalis or anything like that so nothing that may have "gone wrong" for some people didnt bother me. we had all the people we care about there, my mom made amazing food and dad made sure there was plenty to drink. it was fantastic...much better then the over planned, over paid weddings some people have.
2007-02-24 21:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn ♥Cadence Jade's mum♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the ceremony itself? Nothing, it was wonderful.
For the hotel room we spent our wedding night? Everything. It was not special and boring. With a great view of an alleyway, BTW. We should have just checked out of that hotel or thrown a fit for a different room.
2007-02-24 19:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would skip the expensive brunch reception and go straight to the cake/cookie/etc. low key get together that we had back at his parent's house. It would have saved a boat load of money. Also, we had more people at the second half and everyone was happier.
2007-02-24 19:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by rosekm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have done all the bells and whistles that go along with a big traditional wedding.
2007-02-24 18:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing after being married 23 years and having three kids we must have done something right on that day.
2007-02-24 17:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋