I am VERY curious as to how some women who?

Question

are fat as hell, looks like slobs with mickey mouse shirts on and cheap pants and 3 kids can afford to drive new vehicles (yes Im jealous) I was at walmart and you see it everywhere, fat moms with brand new suvs, tons of crap in the cart and kids who dont listen. I keep myself slim and healthy and Im a good mom whose kid listens...Im jealous because Im starting to think that to have the nice mom things, you have to let yourself go and not care about hygiene, then your man will buy you a new vehicle and house...

Just so you know I dont hate fat women...just ones who dont do anything and get everything.

Answer 1

What does weight have to do with having nice things? Its all about what you are willing to work for. I'm sure these women work hard to pay for those cars. Alot of kids do not listen these days and again what does that have to do with having nice things? You seem to be acting very immature if you want nice stuff work for it.

Answer 2

I have seen women of all sizes and colors with nice vehicles and their kids being good or not but size does not make the mother nor does money.
I am a 27 year old married mother to one 5 year old son. I weigh 120 pounds and i own my own home and however i do not drive an SUV i drive a brand new mustang because a SUV reminds me of a bus.
I am a stay at home mom/wife and pround of it but i don't sit on my @** all day long as i have a house to run, take care of my son when he is not at school, cook, clean and make sure everything is in order with the finances and so on.
My husband and i bought a home before we had our son and yes we do buy a new vehicle every 2 years but my husband works hard and this is how we want our lives to be.
It doesn't bother me what other people have and it shouldn't you either. Just because someone might drive a new vehicle doesn't mean they are the best people in the world.

Answer 3

Remember you're on the outside looking in. You don't know what kind of life they have. There is nothing wrong with having nice things. I too am overweight, to use your word: fat. I have a thyroid condition that has caused this. I do not dress that way or have 3 kids along with a great vehicle and house. I feel I live pretty decent and would never apologize for anything I have or have given my daughter. My husband and I have worked VERY hard to have the things we do. Maybe you should look at your finances and develop a plan to be able to have "the nice mom things." Budgets are not easy but they can work if they are realistic and you can stick to them.

Answer 4

I have learned from experience that those who make fun of others are usually the ones that have the problems.(self-esteem) If you where happy why would matter what other people look like. I am somewhat overweight only due to some prescription medicine I have to take. Yes, we have a new SUV and just bought a new home. Guess what, we both work hard for what we have. We also have a son he is two. Also sometimes kids have tantrums at the grocery store, it happens. Just because you see some kid having a fit, doesn't mean that parents don't discipline them. I think your just envious of people that have better things than you and the only way you can deal with it is to take crap about a stereotype that doesn't fit a lot of overweight women. GROW UP!

Answer 5

First of all........... What does being FAT have to do with anything. Fat women can have nice things too.....

Yes alot of welfare people buy expensive vehicles because they do not have to pay for their food, medicine, healthcare, Or have to work. Basically they get a free ride thru life. ( the cronic welfare abusiers not all of them)

I have a brand new SUV that I work damn hard for. I work 7 days a week most weeks and I have to get up super early. So yeah if you see me at 4 am, I probably dont look all that good 1/2 asleep, or at 3 Pm when I'm running to the school to pick up my kids.

My 15 yr old is an honor student , and in the ROTC. My daughter is smart as well. She is 6. I am pregnant with one on the way and i am Divorced. I'm not fat fat but not thin. My children are quiet in the store and stay right with me. I dont get child support and I OWN MY HOME. No one paid for it but me. So no man bought it for me.

If you want nicer things work harder , stop being jealous of those people that have them. They are not getting them for free. Ugly people, fat people, dumb people , can all have nice things too Not just skinny people..... And you dont have to be skinny to be a good mom.

Skinny people get better health care is why they are healthier. I thicker woman gets blown off and told all problems are just about weight and i know alot of women that had serious medical conditions over looked for years by dr.s

Maybe someday you will get sick and get fat and then we will see if your attitude changes.

EDIT______ Make up your mind how old you are....... you could afford these things if your husband had a god job or you werent a stay at home mom....... If you dont like your life Change it. I read your other questions how did u go from 26 to 32 in 4 days PLZZZZZZZZ Get a life.

Answer 6

How does being fat have anything to do about it. How do you know that they don't just have the money to do anything. I see alot of skinny women out there that are really %itchy to their kids.. doesn't mean every skinny women is like that. Fat has nothing to do with what they are driving and how their kids are raised. I'm overweight, I have one vehicle with my husband and my son is a little terror. But he listens when we go out. Ofcourse he is only 19 months. I don't buy alot of junk food... i got overweight b/c I didn't wait long enough between my pregnancies for my children. I lost my first son in labor, and got pregnant 6 months later, had my son, and now 1 year later I'm pregnant again... its has nothing to do with my eating habits. and i have better hygiene then alot of ppl around me... so being fat has nothing to do with anything... you sound very ignorant if you believe this.

I'm editing for star... one who says that the fat slob women isn't the one with the 6 figure salary.. and who says that the man is in perfect shape also???? I mean there are tons of men out there that are huge with their big fat beer bellies with the skinny women who have the salary... that doesn't mean crapola. You need to grow up if you believe that some women trapped some guys who makes the money. It could be the mom who is making the money and just b/c she is fat doesn't mean crap. I swear. Over half of america is overweight now a days... its not good but i'm not saying its bad. I am 5 foot, i used to weigh 103Ibs prior to my first pregnancy... and now I am 172 and on my third pregnancy. My husband loves me just the way I am and he is the money maker right now b/c I got out of the military so I can raise my children and see them everyday. Plus the loss of my first son broke my heart. Even though my husband loves me the way I am.. I know since this is my last child I will be losing my weight and go back down as far as I can with my weight. I hate being fat. And i'm pretty sure every other women out there hates it too. Do you think we are all like..wow i don't care if I'm fat and crap.. no i hate buying clothes and i hate looking at myself.. but I want my kids first.. and they come first at all times.. then i come next.. when i am done having my kids i will work on my problem.. which wasn't eating crap and junk food all day it was from eating to make sure my kids were great in my belly... so shut up! I swear. I bet your one of those skinny women who are like.. omg fat ppl... lets walk on the other side.. like its contagious. You dont know anyone circumstance and you never will because you are conceited and very immature.

Answer 7

they have good paying jobs or men that do. dont judge people i drive an suv an older one. i am a great mom and im not fat but not bone skinny either i am offended at your comments. good moms give up everything for their kids. i can afford name brand clothes for me or my son. my husband is military so we dont get alot. until you walk a mile in someone elses shoes shut up you dont know what they go through, there could be a medical reason behind the weight, as far as kids sometimes its faster to ignore their tantrums and deal with it in the car away from nosy stinking people like the likes of you. who would be on your expensive blackberry calling the cops get off your high horse..

Answer 8

Just how do you know they don't do anything? Maybe they're better off than you... get over it! They have 3 kids, or 4, or 10... who cares? Their children are wll taken care of.If they on't listen, thats their problem, not yours. If you're so jlous, get a better job, or get your man to find a job where he makes more money. I'm not in any high up position! My kids are 7 months and 20 months, listen great (20 month old) and we live on one income and struggle, but I never complain, because my life is how I MADE IT, just as yours is what YOU MAKE OF IT!

Answer 9

First and foremost: I am a young mother who drives a SUV. I have two children. I weigh 140lbs and I'm 5"9. I'm what you call "average." So, no, I'm not one of these mothers but I feel for them.

YOU need to mind your own business. What does it matter to you if they wear a Tommy shirt or a Mickey Mouse shirt? What makes YOU any better? Have you ever realized that maybe their husbands dress the same way? Have you ever realized that they may be HAPPY that way? Have you ever realized that maybe money DOESN'T always equal happiness OR a great wardrobe? What does weight have to do with parenting or money?

I don't know about you but I see plenty of mothers at Walmart--all shapes and sizes--who also have misbehaved children.

You need to do many things (1) get a life, (2) get some self esteem because obviously you have nothing better to do then make fun of these people, (3) DO something with your life if you want nice cars, (4) stop being critical, and (5) GROW UP!

Answer 10

First of all your jealousy is making you bitter and is killing you slowly. Second of all count your blessings and be happy with what you have. Be happy That you are healthy. Material things aren't every thing. And If you want to get some where its no ones fault but your self for making the wrong choices! Insulting those women by calling them fat is immature and childish ! Grow up and take responsibility for your life and do something about it!!!

Answer 11

For the love of all that is holy don't let yourself go, have yo stopped to think that maybe these women aren't married, maybe they have multiple baby's daddy's and are sponging off the government. They probably live in crappy shacks and their car payment is probably three times what their rent is. I live in a small town and I see alot of this type stuff it's awful don't let it get you down and don't let yourself sink to that level, it's much better to be a good person in a shitty car than a shitty person in a nice car.