I like this girl but the problem i have is that i dont no how to?

Question

talk to her. she has a job, she goes to a different school than me. i dont have HOMECOURT advantage.

my friend told me one time a guy liked the girl i liked and one day he went to her job and said hi i think yur beautiful can i have yur number? she gave him her number but never called him. my friend said she was freaked out. IM THINKIN great i cant talk to the girl i like at her job cause im thinkin i might SCARE HER OFF.

i asked my friend u think the girl i like will think im a coward if i ask u to get info bout the girl i like? she said probaly yeah and i expecting that answer. also i asked my friend was she surprised when she found out someone had a crush on her? she said no. and said i dont think she wants a boyfriend yet. (thats me with crush)

the girl i liked said something like oh really? Who likes me? if the girl i liked asked those questions does that show a LITTLE interest?
well i need ideas in how to talk to her at her job. should i even bother talkin to her?

Answer 1

First thing, never ask somebody to do the dirty work for you. Girls like guys that are secure about themselves. Next, just talk to her. Don't ask for her number or a date. Get to know her, and let her get to know who you are. If you really want to impress her, wear a dress shirt and put a rose in the pochet. When you get up and start to walk away, stop, turn around, and hand her the rose. Tell her it's just a little somethin to remember you by. With any luck, and a cool composier, she'll be head over heals in no time.

Answer 2

You just gotta realize that to get what you want, you've got to come face to face with a little rejection every now and then, but just keep telling yourself it's better to know, or else your just going to keep wondering..

I've had this problem for a long time, and am just now starting to get used to talking to the opposite $ex somewhat, I'm still scared of rejection, and that's alright, as The Stone's song goes, You can't always get what you want.. But if you try sometimes, you just might find, you get what you need..

So I would take a chance if I were you, or else some other guy is gonna get in there, put in his work, and then you'd be outta the picture, and wouldn't have a chance.. Stop wasting time worrying about freaking her out, she might just think it's sweet, and cute.. Just don't try by hitting on her in a cheesy way, say something like, Hey ( insert her name here ) how're you doin?.. You know I was just wondering if sometime you'd like to hang out, or go to a movie or something, then if she agrees casually give her YOUR number sayin there is no pressure, then tell her have a nice day, and hope to hear from you sometime, ( walk away without taking a glance back at her ) and then you will now get the feeling of knowing that you tried, and if she doesn't call, then she isn't worth your time anyway..

Good Luck! :)

Answer 3

Try being just a plain old fashioned guy. Girls love that sort of thing. Bring her some chocolates or flowers. It has worked for century's. When she ask you why you keep bringing her flowers and chocolates you can tell her that you are interested in her. That would be a good time to ask her out to a movie or a school danced. Since you both go to different schools it should be a good conversation starter. Good Luck

Answer 4

It's sounds like she afrid of getting hurt again. I mean think about it if you had been her shoes what happen to her before . I mean would give a girl you number and then her trune around and not call you. Yeah she differenly wants to know who you are. You just have to it slow and get to know her frist before you ask her out . Just start out by being friends with her and then little a time go by and see how it works out for you.

Good Luck with all that

Answer 5

Find these things out for me about her, ok?

What does she like to do when she is not working....

What is her favorite subject at her school....

What is her best subject at school......

Laugh, a lot, maybe her best subject is not her favorite....ie, have fun with this test.....

Why did she pick this job.....

What was her nickname in elementary school.......

Was she in any plays in elementary school....(here you add what plays you might have been in, etc.)

Where does she like to eat at......(besides her parents' house)

Would she care to share dinner with you sometime.....


I hope you the best, and the best way to win her heart is to mean it. I really do wish you good luck, but I do not know her so I don't know what she is like or what she is into, etc. If she is like me, she will like being talked with as a person and doing things with you as a friend and possible romance. I don't like the guys who stare at my legs or buuttum and then have nothing to say with me. It's really awkward, I don't like it. Be the man and make the initiative to conversation, regardless of what anyone says.

Answer 6

Why don't you just go to her workplace a few times and strike up a short but friendly conversation with her, then when she kind of knows you a little, ask her if she'd like to go out with you sometime. Then you can get her number, etc.

Answer 7

Ya. Talk to her. Flirt. It is a very powerful thing. I mean would you flirt with her if you though she was unattractive? No probably not. She knows that too. Unless she is utterly stupid. Which she probably isnt. So dont push it and dont talk to long just flirt while she is ringing up your stuff, or well...i dont know what her job is so you are going to have to compromise. Good luck!

Answer 8

Well first off you should talk to her. If you dont you like never know if she is willing or not to go out with you. I suggest you start slow by making small talk and then graduately work to asking her out. To make small talk ask how she is doing in school or ask her question about herself(people like to talk about themselves)

Answer 9

yeah you should talk to her but you shouldn't just go up to her and be like your beautiful can i have your # lol you need to start talking to her like you would anyone else you'd meet... start with slow talk and then gradually go deeper in conversations... but not all at once you gottta get to know her first and then after you actually know her and all that good stuff you can ask her out.

Answer 10

I've been on that situations!!! I almost froze up. The best way is to ask her on a date. And just work from there. But sometimes you have to ask yourself if it's even worth it.