OKAY MY BEST FRIEND LKES THE SAME PERSON I DO. SHE SITS NEXT TO HIM IN MOST EVERY CLASS. I NEED HELP
2007-02-24 08:57:16 · 8 answers · asked by stupidblond94 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's sounds like you need to try and beat her to class me and one my bestfriends had that problem when i was a freshman we both like the same guy and we both just agreed that we would share him and you both got attention from him. Even though she got more attention then I did. I got the kiss from the guy . and she got hit when she tried to kiss him. You have to try and make her see that you like. Or'll just have to share the guy or one of you is going to have to tell him how you feel .
Just listen to heart. and also ask your self do really want to lose your friendship over some guy. And also think long and hard is your friendship more imporant or is this guy more imporant then someone that always has your back.
2007-02-24 09:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by college_cindrellea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so understand. Ultimately this situation come down to the question who do you value more. If y'all friendship is deep, then neither one of y'all should talk to the boy. Does the boy like her? If so just let nature take its course, and don't worry about them. In time you will get you reward. This guy may turn out to be a perverted jerk! Don't worry about things sail through life!
Keep Hope Alive!
PS: stay drama free
2007-02-24 17:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by pixiedust 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it happens that two friends like the same guy...the question is are u really true friends? did she know u like him before trying to get close to him? is the guy worth losing ur friend?
i wouldnt lose my friend for a guy ...cause u know its not like this is the one that u are going to spend your life with...its just a stage and on the other hand your bestfriend is the one who may be with you all the time.. i mean like forever...my mum has her very same bestfriends since primary school now they are 56 so....think of it this way ...does the guy worth losing ur friend?
Good luck :)
2007-02-24 17:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a past with this guy, she hasn;t done anything wrong. If she likes this guy just to spite you, then thats one thing, and shes not a true friend. But unfortunately you can;t "claim" all guys that you are attracted to and make them off limits to your friends.
Don;t sweat it, this guy may look to leverage your friend to get closer to you...at least he would do that if he was smart.
2007-02-24 17:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are going to fight over a person and lose you friendship. I feel sad for you both of you. Have you told your friend that you like that person?
2007-02-24 17:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by andrea t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and I think you both should not let a guy come between your friendship.
2007-02-24 17:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well best friends never end but if you want to tell your friend that you like him too maybe you can both hang out with him
2007-02-24 17:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Madison T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant stop your friendship because of boy!a friend is a friend,u will find many boys in the feature...talk to your friend about that and find solution together.is not worth it to argue for a boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-24 17:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by greek girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋