why do guys judge women by there body rather than there personality?

Answer 1

It would be a lot easier to appreciate a woman's personality if it bounced & swayed gently while she walked.


modify) OK, that's obnoxious. But partly true.
Truthfully, once you get past the looks, the personality IS the important part.

But like most guys, I go at least a little by appearance. And the sooner, the better.


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modify) The average woman would rather have brains than beauty because the average man can see better than he can think.

Answer 2

Why do woman look at guys for their body rather then ther personality? Woman do it to!!! The fact is that you must be physically attracted as well as mentally. Everyone has there own standard about how someone should look. Most will never admit it though. I have been physically attracted to someone before and once I got to know there personality I did find them attractive at all. I have also meet someone that I didn't find physically attractive, but I loved her personality. With all this said the fact still remains even though I may have loved her personality my personal standard on looks was not her. Then you have those guys and women that don't care about anything, but looks. Those are the people that don't want or know anything about a relationship.

Answer 3

Because men are visual creatures. This is nature, nothing more.
But as for me, I've dumped very beautiful women who had bad personalities or who used drugs. That's why I like the net dating thing. If they don't post a pic then I can see what kind of person a woman is without my p-ck-r telling me to write the hot girl that has serious problems if I'd only read her profile further.

Answer 4

That depends on how old the guy is. Most teenage boys to mid 20's care (mostly) about the looks of a girl because they care about what their friends and family think. When guys get past the mid-20's they start taking girls for face value. The older you get the more mature you get and you stop caring about what other people think and only care abotu what you think.

Answer 5

women do the same thing...everyone judges each other by their looks first and then get to know their personality after. i don't think a guy would stay with a woman if she had a crappy personality but looked really good...and vice versa.

looks attract, personality keeps.

Answer 6

For the same reason that women do it. If you had the choice beween Brad Pitt and me you're going to go for Brad Pitt without knowing either of us first. He has the better body, but I may have the better personality....but you go for the body first. It's not just us ladies, you do it too

Answer 7

I think its stupid they do that, but I can imagine why. Its not a good reason though. Its because they want the best. They want the skinny and pretty people because they are not or because they want to be like their friends. Us not perfect girls, we get left behind and hurt because of it, and it is time we do something about it. I just have no clue what.

Answer 8

People judge other peole by their appearance. But it's not only their appearance. Guys do value personality as well.

Answer 9

Because you can't have sex with her personality and we like sex a lot. If personality was all that mattered then we might not have relationships with women at all. We'd be happier with men.

Answer 10

most are yes, there is a rare group of us who arent like that. I used to be a pig until i found someone whom i loved but didnt love me more than a friend. It made me realise that i am willing to sacrifice my world for her. when i am with her i dont think about sex i think bout how great she is...

girls are about looks too but not as bad