met this guy for mardi gras and we partied together the whole time in new orleans and had a blast?

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i live in texas, he live in okahomla, im 29 no kids in school work part time in a bank divorced. he seem sweet the average guy 43, kidney specialist, divorced 2 kids 13,19 not for his exwife that he was married to for only 4 years the kids are for a woman he was with for 6yrs who wanted to get married and he didnt so she left him alone like 7 years ago. we have the greatest conversations and talk about alot. he not that considerated and its killing me. like we talk on the phone and i tell him call me back and he dont till he next day, or he tell me hes going to call me back and he dont til the next day, or when we were in new orleans he told me he would be there to pick me up in 10mins and came almost 2 hours later,but then he takes me to nice resturants, plays, vip everything. i dont think i should fall for him but i knd of is. i dont know what to do to shake him. i like him but i dont think hes into being with one person and im not into sharing a man should i leave him alone now?

Answer 1

You said he's a doctor? Doctors are notoriously rude about making people wait for them.

Does he know this behavior bothers you a lot? If not, you should tell him. But tell him CALMLY.

And you can ask things like "If you're late, should I go ahead without you?"

Also -- just because you told him to call you back quickly, why did it follow that he absolutely should obey?

Also -- he works full-time and is the single father of two kids, you work part time. Frankly, right or wrong he may not have as much respect for your time as he has for his own. Especially if one of his patients or children needs him.