2007-02-24 08:41:18 · 12 answers · asked by spenser g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I would say to make yourself look as good as you can, and make up the difference with self confidence and maturity. You can't really fake those things (or you come off looking like a "hey baby!" duffus) so work on making yourself the best you that you can be, and don't worry about the "hot" part. In other words, improve what you can control, forget about what you can't.
2007-02-24 08:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a beauty to them.....some people see others more readily and some couldnt spot it if it were right in front of them. Sometimes it takes a situation where people actually get to know each other. You ever see those couples where you think to yourself that one of them could have done a lot better? The reason those couples exist is because they saw past looks and see whats on the inside, words exchanged between them and they thought "hey this person is what im looking for." So talk to them, be funny, be yourself. When it comes down to it...a hot chick who has a bad attitude is easily one of the ugliest things I have ever seen in my life, what about you?
2007-02-24 08:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by def 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me explain something to you: It is a complete myth that you have to be "hot" to have a good relationship. First of all, you are probably better looking than you think you are. Second, those girls are probably just as insecure or more so. Third, when you are an actual adult looking to marry an actual adult, things like character & fiscal responsibility are much more important than looks. If you are smart, funny, hard working & kind to women you befriend, you will have no problem getting dates/finding someone to marry.
2007-02-24 08:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tom's Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be smart, charming and funny. Women love a guy with a sence of humore. If you have personality and self confindence..without being too cocky..then you can land then even if you don't look like a stud.
If you lack self confindence women know and will stay away from you.
2007-02-24 08:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.You might be hotter than you think so lets go from there. Be confident and outgoing.Girls like to have fun, ask Cyndi Lauper.So knowing that we want a little excitement.Im not talking being goofy. Pay attention when they talk .Talk to them like you talk to your friends.
2007-02-24 08:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by stephenmwells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are slim, you win them with personality, means you will befreind them and become in the freind zone,
As I say "finding a bf/gf is like a resume, if it dont look good then it wont be considered"
same boat there, and i won her with personality but i went to friend zone. people can say looks dont matter but its a lie.
2007-02-24 08:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably not likely, you need to win girls over with your personality, and if your so shallow i dont think you'l manage it.
2007-02-24 08:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by nancy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
impressing them by doing something ure good at.
2007-02-24 08:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
save yourself the trouble....don't even bother.
2007-02-24 08:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Roger B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant unless your rich
2007-02-24 08:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋