2007-02-24 08:38:04 · 11 answers · asked by kitzach 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he left me on wednesday night (after he didnt call for about 3days) When he finally came over to mine he was acting strangely. He left me anyway. I was very upset...I didnt hide it.I dint want him to leave. We both got a txt from my friends asking for us to come to theirs for dinner last night. He then txtd me asking if we should both go. I said 'dont know' he then replied saying 'he doesnt think its a good idea to go' BUT added 'Id love to see you again in a few days, is that ok? I never replied he has been trying to call every day since but I didnt pick up.
I think I love him BUT i am not ready for mind games. What advice would you give me/ what would you do if it was you?
2007-02-24 09:52:52 · update #1
do you think he is taking the piss OR do you think maybe he has realised he made a mistake...NB its only been a few days!
2007-02-24 09:54:34 · update #2
Easy answer - People make mistakes hes realised this probably a little too late lol
2007-02-24 08:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by jobsy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
did he give you a reason for leaving you if he did was it a good enough reason for leaving you. You need to think things through before jumping back in to the relationship again you don't want to get hurt again do you?
2007-02-24 17:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by l_blackrose1985 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha, isn't that a great feeling. The guy left you, and probably left you feeling hurt, miserable, asking yourself what you did wrong etc. And now he's worked out what a stupid thing he did, what a great girl you are, and he wants you back.
Well, I hope you are enjoying watching him grovel. I'd certainly let him sweat a bit before deciding whether to let him back into my life. Enjoy the power while you can!!
2007-02-24 17:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to know why he left and why he wants to contact you. It is in your hands if you want to see what he has to say for himself, make him sweat it out a while longer before you jump in, if he really wants to contact you that bad then he will keep tryin, just remember than you are in control this time and not him.
2007-02-24 16:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by jayz81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be a doormat. Life will one day give you someone who knows your worth. Fact. x
2007-02-24 17:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go back to where he went when he left you . see the grass is not greener on the other side don't sell yourself short he would only do it again and again because he thinks he can. don't give him the chance be strong good luck x
2007-02-24 16:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by lou. c. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people only realise what they had after they have lost it - if it was because of another woman tell him where to go!
2007-02-24 16:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange he has not finished with someone else and feels lonely be careful you do not want to be hurt again, question his motives.
2007-02-24 16:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by denny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everyone makes mistakes. if u love him and still want him beside u, talk with him and mb forgive him
2007-02-24 16:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't be pregnant so what's the problem?!
If you haven't moved on yet then it's time to. Backwards is not a good direction to travel in... Don't be flattered- be insulted!
2007-02-24 16:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋