My situation is a little weird. There's this girl i've known since like 7th grade, she's two years younger than me and i never really liked her untill recently. she and my best friend have had an on off relationship and that never really bothered me because i didn't really like her, i thought she was hot but it was just shallow so i didn't pursue anything. A lot of time has passed and im now 800 miles away from her in college and she's a senior in high school. over my winter break i saw her, got drunk, made out and basically fell for her. she doesn't want a relationship and just says she feels weird but the thing is when she's drunk we have a really strong connection. I mean we sat and just cuddled for 2 hours, it's hard to believe she doens't have any feelings for me. it's really cutting me up inside thinking about her which consumes probably at least 50% of my thoughts on a good day. Any advice on how to move on, or should i keep trying, just what should i do?
2007-02-24 08:13:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as far as the thinking part knows, i now exactly what you mean.
as for the drinking people change when they drunk.
for ex when im drunk i speak my mind, will not tell a lie. you need to talk to her and get the connection when your sober =) good luck
2007-02-24 08:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well I have read everything and I know how you feel. Well have you really tried asking her if she only liked you because you were drunk?? I think that you should try asking because if you don't you might just be thinking about her for all your life. And if you don't ask you are going to miss out on all the girls that are passing by and miss a chance on falling in love!!! (real love)
2007-02-24 08:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what i think you should do...
It's not really one of the best things to go out with or hook up with your friends ex, it would really hurt your friend, i had that done to me. If she says she does'nt like you there's plenty of other girls in the world that will like you or even love you without you or them being drunk.So my advice would be to get over her as hard as it may seem. Hope my advice works for you.
2007-02-24 08:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET ABOUT IT!! MOVE ON PAL, AND DO YOURSELF A FAVOR!!!!
2007-02-24 08:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋