i really like this guy at first and i had always wanted to date him we have been together for 5 months and he always wants to touch me you know where and its really getting annoying and i really like him but i just want to be single and be able to flirt and talk to guys, but im afraid when i break up with him ill miss him too much and it will stress me out about it> PLEASE help me
2007-02-24 08:12:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a guy and I htink the best thing to do is tell him exactly how you feel. If your not the clingy type you can offer the same freedom to him while you continue to date other people
2007-02-24 08:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by ink360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound kind of mean. You want to flirt with other guys? I think you should pay attention to the one you're with. Seeing as you've already got to the point of wanting to flirt with other guys, just break up with the guy. Just be honest. You don't have to be mean. Just tell him that you're not feeling too good about the relationship, you're not so interested, and you want to break it off. That's it. You're done.
Anyway, I'm sure that you'll find that just about any boyfriend you have will want to touch you.
Stop leading him on. And, yes, you may just miss him. That pretty much always happens with every break-up. Know that you're clingy, and deal with it. Stop using him as a security blanket.
2007-02-24 16:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't I see this in Drake & Josh? Drake wanted to get back to the single life, but soon realized how lost he was without his girlfriend. He was able to get her back in the end, but we're talking about Drake Bell. Point is, if the only reason you want to break up with this guy is just to be single again, you may not be ready for commitment in relationships. You also sounded like you were bothered by him trying to touch you. If that did more than annoy you, and you begin to miss him if you decide to call it off, remind yourself of that.
2007-02-24 16:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by tres_maqnifique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, and would miss him if you break up, then don't.. A relationship is all about communication. Just tell him to not touch you 'there' all the time. There's a time and a place for it, and he should respect that.
Good luck, I know it isn't an easy decision.
2007-02-24 16:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by OffLiCute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's clear this relationship is circling the drain. If it's hard for you to end it, just remember that every day you don't do it is a day he can't move forward and explore other relationships, either. It's not fair to keep him on a string if you have every intention of ending it. Do it!
2007-02-24 16:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Terri J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your afraid your going to miss him then don't break up. If he keeps touching you where you dont want him too let him know that you dont enjoy that. Be open and honest.
2007-02-24 16:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by angelesdave 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you don't say how old you are but i expect your in your teens sweetheart if your not ready for him to touch you then tell him and say i not ready to go farther yes when we break up we do miss our ex,s but if your not happy with him then its for the best go enjoy yourself but don't be a tease that will hurt you more just enjoy friendships and chatting with your mates you will know when your ready to settle down be safe and take your time god bless
2007-02-24 16:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by one2treasure2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should break it off with him u deserve a guy that respects u emotionally and physically.u deserve a guy that will understand u and not push u to take it further than u want to.
2007-02-24 16:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by fashgurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just say you want to take a break.
2007-02-24 16:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you still think your gonna miss him talk to him if you don't care how he feels break it off
2007-02-24 16:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by 2 a'da da dorable' 4 u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋