ok, idont talk to him but i used to and since we stopped talking it got realy awkward. he said hi to me and i said it back abd he smiled but thats as far as the cnversation side of it has gone lately. but he is always looking at me, and my friends havr heard him talking about me, and he looks at me at lunch time, and he acts real shy when i catch him looking. im not in any of his classes but last year i was and wenever he waled past my desk he would walk realy slowly and look at me. im mental about him i havent liked anyone this much before and i cant stop thinking about him! im realy shy and i cant just go talk to him and he is the same. what should i do. please keep in mind we are only 14 and both painfully shy.
thanks
2007-02-24 08:10:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard to make friends when shy, but he is sending you some signals that says he likes you. Why did you stop talking? Well it sounds like you could be good friends if you both were to start talking again. Do you have anything in common with him that you use to talk about? If so just strike up a new conversation to him about it, even if its to say how is your mom or someone you both know. Good Luck.
2007-02-24 08:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to him in a casual manner...as if ur searching for a friendship...this would make him feel more easy around you. Give this relationship time to develop...when this relationship develops you can start the flirting...just keep in mind that if u make a move u wont lose anything...just know a definite answer but if u dnt make a move...u might lose every chance u had...and would u bear to live with that?
2007-02-24 16:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
puppy love girl ,, you will go through tons of those moments. dont lose any sleep over it . if he really liked you he would say something... & btw study !stop being concerned with dudes that time in your life will come and its not suppose to be at 14, stay shy and stay away from guys at that age they are all bad news because just like you they are trying to find themselves and that makes for a dangerous situation. wait tll college :o) thats when the fun begins
2007-02-24 16:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by live in the magic of life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! If this guy and you both think you like each other, i would ask him for his # or SN or something, and start talking outside of school. If things are still going well, go for it! But a word of advice. Never over-analyze things with guys! good luck!
2007-02-24 16:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by magicalmayhem_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have one of your girl friends hook you up.Have her tell him that you like him and see what he has to say.That way if he's not feeling you like you think he is you want have to take the rejection to the face.And have a girl friend do it that you trust. Some one that if it dosen't work out the way you want it to they won't throw it in your face.
2007-02-24 16:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same thing. sroiusly this guy was in all of my classes last year and always sat next to me, we were always science partners. And we didn't pick the teacher did so we seemed like the perfect couple. people said we were going out and then we got shy, we broke apart. but this year i went up to him and said wat happing. he kissed me and we are together,, finally
2007-02-24 16:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by laa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus think about this u like him alot and what happens if hes gets a gf?
then ur really gonna regret not askin him out and whenver u see them together its gonna kill u belive me ive been through that
jus ask him he seems to like you alot
to me it seems like he also wants to go out with you
you should make a move before its too late
good luck!
2007-02-24 16:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go talk to him. find out what he likes to do. then you talk about that with him. that's how you stir up conversations. Hope that helps!
2007-02-24 16:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Rafael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋