Do you want your ex back? Details, please! (ex. like how long you've been broken up for and why you broke up in the first place.) I want to learn from others experinces.
2007-02-24 08:09:25 · 14 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep i still want my ex back. Its sort of complicated to explain but i'll try. We broke up about 3 weeks ago and we were going out for 5 months. I never loved anyone like i love him. He showed me what true love is. He broke up with me, because at the beginning of the relationship he told me he was gonna have to leave in a year or two, and he asked me if i wanted to still continue the relationship and i said yes. I didnt really think i was going to fall in love with him so fast. Then in January we broke up because he told me he didnt want to keep hurting me or himself by staying in the relationship if he was gonna be leaving. It was so hard for both of us. But we stayed friends and of course we still acted like we were going out so then like a week later he asked me back out and then 3 weeks ago, he said that this was it and he needed to be serious about us breaking up for good. He had been thinking about staying for a while, but he knows he needs to go. But yeah if he changed his mind for real and wasnt gonna go, then i would go back out with him. I cant explain why hes going, or where, but yeah. he taught me a lot of things. and he made me want to be a better person. I cry still sometimes because i want to atleast be friends with him, but we arent currently...
2007-02-24 08:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by one_thing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 19:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes.
I severely doubt that anyone can get back together with an ex and make it last for a long time. There were reasons why they broke up before, and the reasons would just return.
When I want to be with my ex, I think of all the good times, and how things have changed for the better, and how so many chances were lost. Now, if we're together it'll be so much better.
Then, I realize that that's not true.
2007-02-24 08:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are called ex for a reason. What is the purpose of getting back with someone who you broke up with. My ex and I broke up a month ago because he wanted to be controlling. I don't comprehend that at all. So, we had to go our separate ways. He's a good person but he have some issues that he need to work on.
2007-02-24 08:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Yes I've wanted my ex back but who doesn't??
It's sorta complicated but I'll try..I started dating this guy on august 29th and to my expeirience a 17 year old girl and a 15 year boy just doesnt work out too well lol anyways he was 15 and didnt live with adults well he did but they acted like teens..He stayed the night with me I stayed the night with him all the time well he moved to another city I was in the hospital for a bad sickness I was still sick when I got out not even two weeks later he never called I found out by my two best friends he was cheating and we broke up lets just say Karma bites in the A$$ the girl cheated on him and left him he called two days later beggin me back needless to say I took him back lol
2007-02-24 08:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Still Inlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one time i remember in particular when i wanted an ex back i cried day in and out... wondered what i did wrong what i could have done better, what i shouldnt have done... the list goes on and on. i tried to become friends w his friends but it hurt me more just to see him so unaffected. we were together about a yr and a half and for about six months after i did nothing but made it my goal to get him back. i guess we broke up cuz of his busy schedule, hes a cadet in the fire department and an EMT. not only that he was working else where and goin to school full time so whatever time he had he was at home sleeping or studying or working and there was very little time for me which i hated so i would go out of my way to see him something to this day he never was thankful for or even realized. i put my life on hold for him i loved him so much i would do anything for him and then when i hit that point... i realized that he didnt care and he knew i would do anything for him so he let me cuz id do it anyways regardless of what he said. when i hit that point i realized i would never get him back and i also realized i didnt want him back after all. when i pulled away from him he started to come back but by then it was too late. i had already made up my mind and done everything i could do salvage what was left of the already broken relationship. Hes had a gf since then and then recently broke up w her...was a long distance relationship and with his hours? yea no wonder it didnt last... hes called me several times leaving me voicemails saying out of all the girlfriends hes had that i was the one who treated him the best and he cant believe how he messed it all up... i never picked up his call and i hated he would even call let alone have my number so i changed it. havent looked back since... it was a good decision cuz im now with someone im totally and completely in love with and you know what? remember all those things i did for my ex... he does them for me....*sigh*
2007-02-24 08:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by ree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
We've been broken up for like...6 months. And I have a boyfriend now, who is my best friend. And the reason why I wouldn't go back with him is because I've learned what it really is to be in a relationship where you communicate and get along, and everything a relationship is supposed to be.
I broke up for a lot of reasons. I didn't love him. I didn't even like him. I got tired of him, and the way he was with me. We didn't even talk when we saw eachother. We were never together. He was really stupid. His beliefs were WAY different than mine. I felt sorry for him, and that's the only reason I actually kept being with him in the first place. I liked my best friend (the guy I'm with now). And I didn't want to play with anyone, and I knew it wasn't going anywhere. I was just dying to be free. Hahaha...So yeah. :)
The answer is actually NEVER. :]
2007-02-24 08:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT. They are an "ex" for a reason. My ex-wife and I have been divorced for 9 years. We got divorced because she cheated on me. Five years ago I met a wonderful woman, 3 years ago we were married, and I couldn't be happier. I feel like I have finally met my soul mate, and look forward to spending many, many years with this person. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-24 08:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by BRIAN W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my recent past relationship i did want him back he broke up wit me cuz"it was weird cuz we were friends than we became more than friends" but he also wanted to do things wit meya kno the wholre friends wit benfits things ya ...i thought i could go along wit it cuz i wanted him back so i thought by doing this i could get him back & itryed in every which way...it didn't work tho...i've tryed on a lot of my ex's to get them back, there was one where i did everything in my poweer to win him back cuz he had my heart but he didn't kno i truly cared about this guy & i was sooo happy when we were together ...i kept tryin to talk to him... i did anything i could...that didn't work thats when i relize that i need to move on sumtimes u jus need to u can't always get wat u want... i'm now wit the love of my life and i wont never lose him...
sumtimes u try and sumtimes u win..
but only sumtimes u don't win all the time life isnt that good..
2007-02-24 08:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by crazysmith187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly a little part of me does then the majority doesn't want to details: broke up last august over his friend liking me and him thinking i was cheating on him when i wasn't!!! but whatever don't care now anyways have a new man like him better anyways
2007-02-24 08:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋