i dont know what to do i need ur help?

Question

i love mt bf he always tell me he loves me alot and can never live without me....but he told me he had sex with many girls he tells ma i odnt want to remeber and i feel im so bad well i dont know if he is saying the truth but what should i do i love him but im hurt so shall i leave him or shall i believe he changed.......did any one of u married a boy who made sex many times and if yes how is he right now.............thanx

Answer 1

It's not something he should be bragging about to you. Maybe it sounds cool to his male friends but like you said it hurts you. I feel that you should tell him you don't like hearing about his past and tell him now so he understands......that if he ever cheats on you , you will leave him. It's important to let your boyfriend what to expect if you are to ever get married. Best Wishes to you.

Answer 2

I'm not sure what your actually asking or explaining, but from what I can get, I am currently in love with a 36 yr old man who when he was near 20 went to live with his father in California and quickly became involved in the world his father and wife were living in which was swinging, I hope you know what that was and can you imagine what I had to hear, anyways he now is and I mean truly 100% is a faithful good man and only has sex when in love and we were best friends for two years and despite several close encounters and some very passtionate make out sesstions would not sleep with me until he was sure I could be faithful to him and was conducting myself better then when we met. so there you go, its possible you just need to listen to what he says now about his current values and dreams, and especially his actions will tell the whole truth, good luck Kim

Answer 3

well I think you would want to know him more befoer you get deep. And well he might have changed that is posible but he might not have chaged as well. so you have 50% of both. I think befor you end up geting hurt in a wrong time you better kind of think over it for some time before you totaly believe him. I can tell you about the other question cause I am a guy and I am neve going to marry another guy. you know what I mean.

Answer 4

Girl, don't believe for what he says. He's only playing games with you. Psychologically speaking, this boy is creating a non-sense subject to you...so that you will give your virginity and to have sex with him all the time, until you're an addict to him.
this guy is not a good person, why you love him in the first place? Find another guy who is in love with you, a faithful one, a good one and is afraid of God. Never give in to his wishes...it will make you feel sad in the long run.

Answer 5

You have a long way before marriage .its not just something to do it's a life time commitment So what if ether of you have had experience that doesn't mean it wore out .Love the person not the history.If you look at how they act not what they say give it time & see if he need you not wants you, Just my idea

Answer 6

its different with every person. i had a friend...true story he slept with more than 400 ppl, and had at least 200 gfs. but now he stopped being a player, and is with his gf for 7 months now and happy. but these is a really rare case. don't count on ur bf to be the same hon, just leave him if he is making you unhappy

Answer 7

hi,
well , dr phil always says that the best prediction for future behaviour is past behaviour.. and ur thinking about marriage, well u probably know that it's not a joke.. it's real responsability..
i say, if u r willing to marry him then he would cheat on u for sure..sorry

Answer 8

Guys and gals like to sow a few wild oats, some sow more then others!

Answer 9

If he says it was a mistake then i say be with him but if he doesn't regreat it then leave his ***.