well , my bf cheated on me and it hurts a lot to me, i even cry 2 days continously and now i wanna ask that should i make him realize that how it hurts or forget about what happen n start a new life :(, thnx
2007-02-24 07:50:30 · 14 answers · asked by Ðåñg论µ$ G@L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him and start a new life. That was so not right.
2007-02-24 07:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how bad it hurt you. If he's serious about you, he'll talk about it. I cheated on my bf, and I really regreted it, but when I told him about it, we talked it over and everything worked out real well, and yes, I love him. Talking about it is the best thing, because if you put it behind you, it will always be something you'll think about. So it's best to get it out of the way. And just because he cheated on you does'nt mean he doesn't love you, humans are curious, and therefore we tend to make mistakes like that. So do talk it over asap. Good luck!
2007-02-24 15:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by dollars_xc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a note. Include the following...
1.) What he did was so wrong
2.) It makes you cry for days
3.) What did you do to deserve this?
4.) Why didn't you just tell the truth in the first place?
5.) How come you didn't just break up with me because now I'm hurt. For all of those other girls cheated on, I now know how they feel. I never thought I wouldn't get cheated on but from you, that's just shallow.
2007-02-24 15:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how much this hurts but the best advice i can give you is to just move on. It will take a while and it will hurt, but it's for the best. What he did to you is not okay and you deserve better. There is somebody out there that is better and you have to move on before you can find them.
2007-02-24 15:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Joy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not worth discussing anymore. you will find in life this sort of thing in relationships. they are not like the movies where everything works out in the end. you live and learn from each relationship and make sure the same mistakes dont happen with the next. read tips on love and relationships to help you better on this site
2007-02-24 15:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u wanna be friends with him tell him n that in order for everything to be cool between yall u need to get ur feelings out bout how much he hurt u but if u still lookin for a relationship wit him kick him to the curve start wit sumone fresh cuz ur better than that
2007-02-24 15:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Arghhhhhhh! I'm trying to be nice here, but LEAVE HIM! Past behavior is a great predictor of future behavior. Not to mention that this idiot boyfriend of yours obviously has no respect for you! If he cared about you, he wouldn't have cheated! He wouldn't have hurt you, he would not have put you at risk for a STD (did you think about that one?)!!! PLEASE respect yourself and dump this guy!!!!! You deserve someone who really LOVES you!
2007-02-24 15:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it, Start off fresh, you will be fine. It will take a little time. But life is to short to let it get to you.
2007-02-24 15:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by pepper_y2k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if he is even sorry or not if he isnt they move on he isnt worth your tears your better than that and you deserve better than that enjoy life don't waste it crying over his ***.
2007-02-24 15:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by Awakened 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out fresh. You'll be doing yourself a favor.
2007-02-24 15:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋