i am realy shy.i dont seem to be from the outside but i am. i have no confidence in myself and feel like a loser, i fel like the only reason people talk to me is coz they feel sorry for me. i never used to be like this but lately its been getting worse. there is this guy i realy like and everyone says he likes me and i cant talk to him, i feel like he will just laugh in my face. why cant i just be comfortable with myself and takl to him. i have never liked anyone this much before. and the wierd thing is people tell me im pretty and random people whistle at me and stuff. a random guy asked me out yet i still think im ugly. please help!
ps. the guy i like is realy shy too
2007-02-24 07:45:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be your self and try to find a subject you both like and it will just flow. Don't be afraid ok?
2007-02-24 07:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by BigBlackDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As corny as is sounds you have to like you on the inside before you will truly see how beautiful you are on the outside. Are there things that you have done or said eating you up inside and maybe you have not forgiven yourself for? Nobody is perfect. Everyone goes through this stage in there life where they feel self concious or shy. I doubt people just talk to you because they feel sorry for you, believe it or not they probably like you. As for the guy you have been scoping out, I highly doubt that he will laugh in your face. Before you go talk to him, maybe you should figure out what exactly you would want out of dating him. Friendship, fun, affection, all of the above? Then just go up to him and see if he is interested in doing something you like to do to or are confident doing. What is pretty anyway? Who says what pretty looks like? TV, magazines, society. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Different strokes for different folks. Screw what everybody else thinks. Your beautiful and I say go for this guy. You have nothing to lose.
2007-02-24 16:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way but no one would ever guess it by the way I act. It's normal but most people feel it and keep quite about it. But trust me, guys wouldn't whistle at you if they didn't think you were hot.
2007-02-24 15:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋