Some times my boy friend is rough with me and i like it ,but other times he gose to far and he really hurts me . what should i do .some time i know he dosent mean to hurt me but other times i'm not sure.
2007-02-24 07:41:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not abusive(i don't think),and it has nothing 2 do with sex
2007-02-25 05:28:45 · update #1
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2007-02-25 05:29:54 · update #2
tell him that he is to rough let him know that it hurts I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt you just tell him when he dose something that it hurts .you don't always have to make a big discussion out of every thing just tell him right away.
2007-02-24 07:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Asha J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a honest conversation with him. Let him know how much you enjoy being with him and making love. Let him know that when it gets SLIGHTLY rough that you do like it but when it gets stronger with the rough stuff that it hurts some. He would want to know if he is hurting you. He probably senses that you enjoy it and that why he increased the roughness. If you don't criticizes him he should be fine with it, Let him know how much you treasure the time with him..
My man always asks me if something hurt or not with us when we try new things.
Good luck.
I was assuming you were talking about sex. If you are talking about an abusive relationship you need to leave it. I was in one and it isnt healthy.
2007-02-24 07:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know your limits. If he is abusive get out. He will appreciate the fact that you let him know if he is too rough and he isn't abusive because I am sure he doesn't want to hurt you.
2007-02-24 07:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by angelesdave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and tell him. If you like it sometimes go ahead and continue and make sure you guys agree on some kind of safe word. When you say it he should stop. If he continues, get rid of him. It may be signs of deeper issues and future trouble.
The Syko Ward
2007-02-24 07:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by The Syko Ward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him! Sit down and talk with him. Remind him that you love him, but that part of your relationship makes you uneasy and uncomfortable. When he's doing it, he may not be aware of it, so casually say, "Let's not do that..."
2007-02-24 07:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by tres_maqnifique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM there is better guys out there than woman beaters
seriousy if you dont it could esculate and he could end up seriously hurting you
seriously DUMP HIM !!!!!
2007-02-24 07:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by eddy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he is boing overly agressive and that he is hurting you. grow up and stop being so rough with each other.
2007-02-24 07:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a fool.... sorry to be so harsh, but you are. Find some respect for yourself and your soul and leave him.
2007-02-24 07:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him stop being rough.If he says no then dump him and find someone else
2007-02-25 00:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by >>HaRdY BoYz<< (EAW) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that sometimes he goes too far. if he is a good boyfriend, he will understand and go easier on you.
2007-02-24 07:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋