I'm just over 35, and probably looking for something that doesn't exist
2007-02-24 07:39:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your life sounds like it has little direction. Get involved with a hobby, helping other's kids, or work with the church.
Or, and I'm not kidding, you could consider going out with me. You seem honest. I'm 43 and divorced three years, wanting to get out and date again. Just E-mail me if you want to talk.
2007-02-24 07:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 36, and I know how you feel. I've never been married, and have had only a few close relationships, and have been thinking along the same lines you are for some time, now. However, you may wish to consider this before you run out and start dating everything with 2 legs and a smile: You are unwilling to settle for just anyone, and that's a good thing. It means you have a moral and ethical code that does not condone putting up with whoever comes up and says "Hi" to you.
For me, love begins with respect, and I'm finding it hard to find anyone I have respect for these days, particularly women. (3 kids or more, living in a trailer park with or without trailers, likes to talk about personal relationships with God/Jesus (which I still find silly), and can't hold a job for more than 6 months? No way!) I'm only guessing, but you sound like you have the same thing, and it's nothing to be ashamed of, really. It means you can think ahead, and can tell if something's going to go seriously wrong later. So keep your chin up and live your life without compromising your morals, and you'll be okay.
2007-02-24 15:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just lacking the plan of your life. Why on earth. at 35 still single? And, you're getting bored because of love? Girl, life is not only living with what you want, but also living the way God has its purpose for us mankind -- to procreate.
In the beginning of your adolescence age, you are not creating the world for you. You are making the priorities in your life, and now, you want love? But, you can still have a chance to find the man of your life. At your age, I think you know the way how to catch a man. Or, study, research, aquaintances, attending parties, social gatherings, etc. There's a lot of ways to meet your love. Go on, start now....and be happy!
2007-02-24 15:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by FX777222999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you set your standards so high that no one would suitable? Have you set the bar too high? I know that everyone has an idea about what their ideal mate should be like, but, the higher you set the bar, you seriously limit the number that will be able to jump over it. You may have to be less picky, and a little more realistic. Nobody's perfect. Mr. Perfect may not be out there..... but Mr. Not-So-Perfect could be a lot of fun if you give him a proper chance. You might have to risk having your feelings hurt a little to find him.
2007-02-24 15:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, lm 25 and almost in the same situation, I dont know why but apparentaly I will just keep doing the same thing that I've done all this time Dating, but not really specting or allowing a deep relationship maybe I'd say that I share ur same idea " probably looking for someone who doesnt exist "
2007-02-24 15:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by -Vladimir- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun and date or just be single and not look. If you worry about falling in love or try too hard to find someone then you will single forever or wind up in wrong relationships.
2007-02-24 15:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Hippie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 26yrs old and also going through the same thing with me its that im too fussy and i just refuse to settle for just anyone and the sad thing with that is chances are i might not even find the kinda guy im looking for cos he probably does not exist. So either i compromise or end up alone and lonely so theres my answer to you.....hope it helps:)
2007-02-24 15:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by Nokuthula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not sumthing which you hav to find around
In one of the survey
it was found that every person in this world is been loved atleast by 30 people in his life
you just hav to find one from this 30 people
may be he is the man staying beside ur home
2007-02-24 15:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by rick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to put yourself out there, to find someone! How hard are you trying? You can't expect him to trip over you like in the movies. It isn't that simple. How many social situations do you put yourself in weekly? And I don't mean the laundrymat, the grocery store, and your friends house.
2007-02-24 15:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be so picky, cause there is more that looks, you never know you might meet the sweetist person in the world if you would give them a chance.
2007-02-24 15:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by minnesotabluerags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋