to call or not to call?

Question

last night i got blackout drunk and told this girl ive been seeing off, since she ignored me the entire night then slipped and revealed that the old boyfriend was among the group she was hanging out with. I had finally had enough and told her to just go back to him because Im sick of dealing with this crap only to get shelved. It got bitter, and today Im left confused as to whether I should call or not.
As twisted as it sounds, I have feelings for this girl to an extent, but im concerned if i call shell take it like she can just continue walking all over me so i think i should probably just not call. Either way this is a crucial decision. Call or no call?

Answer 1

Don't call. It's true what they say about alcohol bringing out true feelings. You told her how you truely felt about her last night. So my advice to you is don't call her. One of the worse feelings in the world is knowing how much you care for someone to find out the feeling isn't mutual. You said it yourself, by calling her it may give the impression that she can continue to treat you the way she has been. If she wants to be with you then it will be and there won't be any second guessing about it. Hold on, be strong, don't call.

Answer 2

You could call and explain the entire situation. If you talk to her about your feelings and tell her you're concerned about her walking all over you maybe she'll realize she can't treat you like that. If you have feelings for her still you should call.

Answer 3

Call.

Answer 4

i think you should call to tell her you need to talk and try to explain in person what you think is going on

Answer 5

To call or not to call. THAT is the question. Hah. well the answer is TO CALL. ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Answer 6

you should call and have them over and have good sex