Im 15 almost 16 year old and my ex boyfriend is 18 and we were going out for 1 year and 3 m . WE broke up today at 9 am i love him i really do . we broke up b-cuz my mom and dad dont let us go out on dates .but i want him back .so should i get a new boyfriend
2007-02-24 07:09:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go back out with him and when you turn 16 ask your parents to let you go on a date, reassure them that nothing sexual will happen and try to keep it that way. The problem they have is the fact that he's 18 (an adult) and you are a minor.
2007-02-24 07:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Veronica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the answer depends on maturity.
Some on your parents and how much they approve of him.
Some on the ages.
He is of age and you are not. That creates some legal concerns, mostly for him. Plus, older guys are going to want to do things and go places you may not get to or want to.
There is also the matter of sex. At his age, he is more inclined to emphasize it. At yours, you should not. I am sure your parents see it that way too.
As far as maturity, I really don't know you, so you have to evaluate for yourself. Some maturity occurs naturally with age, some occurs with experience. Some even with intelligence.
Your parents probably see his age as a concern. I would. Beyond that it would relate to his personality and behavior. What are his pursuits? His expectations? And the big questions - his character and intentions? What goals do you have for yourself? Does he fit into those goals? Does he have goals? Why not. You have a future ahead of you that you must set the path for, basically now.
There is no rule you have to have a bf, and, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Most young loves are not enduring anyway. There is much life will through at you yet. So be patient, focused, and have some fun. Plan your future, work your plan, and the right guy will fit into it when the time is right.
2007-02-24 07:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. Just because your parents don't permit him dating you, you shouldn't do that. But, don't disobey your parents, either. Just wait for the right guy to come, maybe your parents will approve of him. Your parents didn't like this guy maybe because he is 18 years old. Your just 15. It's illegal, and your parents are worried about you. They don't know if they can trust the guy and even you. Many today have sex, and they just worry. So, the bottom line. Don't find a new boyfriend, and don't disobey your parents. Just stay in the middle. Wait.
2007-02-24 07:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by Rumba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T get a new boyfriend right away, it will be complete chaos...rebounds never work out.
If you two still want to date and are not just because of your parents maybe you should talk to them, you guys were together for awhile and you shouldn't throw that away just because your parents say so. Your 16, not 12.
2007-02-24 07:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by Alyson McLaren 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
enjoy life. you'll find it difficult now. but boys will come and go in your life. just enjoy what your've got and what you've had. i say this to myself when i split up with a girl, my heart will heart, but remember girls come and go, your friends will always be there. im sure this should apply to you too. guys will come and go, stick with your friends. fill in the gap with your friends. maybe you haven't spent enough time with them recently. spend time with them. what ever happends, remember one thing, its easy to get caught up in relationships, if its not ment to be, its not ment to be, smile and carry on with your life, your young live!- and dont let any guys mess you around and walk all over you. just walk away. its hard to say this, and to know this, but here goes... your parents probably know whats best for you. listen to them, express your thoughts too. in the end of it all, remember your parents love you, and they are just trying to do whats best. find a guy your own age. have fun. guys 18+ are probably thinking more with there you know what, than with there heart. there just after one thing. believe me, i remember being that age. your parents know this too. just live abit. enjoy life. forget about boyfriend and girlfriend, it doesnt mean much anway.its hard to hear what you dont wanna hear. everyone knows this. sometimes its best to stand back and look at the situation from both perpestives, including your parents.dont grow up too quick, you might think that you want too, but believe me you'll regret it when you do.stay young, enjoy yourself. its hard i know!!
hope this helps.
2007-02-24 07:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by robm1089 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get someone your own age though sweetie , and i think you should take a step back hang out with your friends and have fun leave the dating for later on
2007-02-24 07:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by nirvan m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want him back and are going to try to get him back you shouldn't get a new boyfriend..
2007-02-24 07:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no and don't let your parents stop you if you are in love! i didn't and married to my high school sweet heart and im 27 hes 32
2007-02-24 07:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by beccalynn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should becasue i just broke up with my boy friend i hope he heard me becasue i said it fast but u should becasue i want to good luck
2007-02-24 07:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, get a new b/f.
2007-02-24 07:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋