He was contacting me every day, msn, texts, calls...we dated for 3 weeks like that. Fantastic sex, great time.
Than i said i am getting too emotionall and and that i want to slow things down, or even stop altogether. He said he doesn't want to stop because he really likes me. We decided we are going to continue but he changed his attitude to me, became cold, distant, and not so romantic anymore i guess... We spoke on the phone yesterday and he said that I started to "get upset with him" too much, that i have too many mood swings, that it makes him feel bad...Today he contacted me via msn when we were both online to say high. He asked if i am "still upset" with him, i said, no and that there is nothing to be upset with. Since that he is not talking to me, I see him on MSN but he doesn't say hi, and he hasn't called and texted all day. I wanted to go and see him and have sex at his yesterday to resolve the issues, but he never invited me, said he is really tired...Am i being dumped..
2007-02-24 07:09:30 · 15 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bin him. your being used.
2007-02-24 07:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to a mate of mine too - exactly the same thing. She totally backed off him (found it hard to do though) and things got back to the way they were before long. Just give him some space - there's no logical reason why guys do this, but so many seem to for some reason. Just don't contact him in any way for about three days. He'll soon come running back........... Good luck x
2007-02-24 15:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men dont like women who have mood swings all the time,also it was you who said you wanted to slow things down or stop,he's probably pulling the plug before he gets hurt.
2007-02-24 15:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Pat R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight............
You two Im each other , text back and forth and have great sex...................................
You say you want it to slow down and he didn't like that.
A) Why were you sleeping with him already ???
B) He isn't into you anymore.
C ) What's the problem ? Obviously he only needed you to fulfill his animal needs and didn't worry about your needs. Find a real man ....................and stop giving it up on the spot. Don't you have any self esteem?
2007-02-24 15:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe he has been hurt before...he is seeing the behavior change as a train wreck coming ...he is probably self protecting himself...men don't like to feel pain and rejection any more than women....the emotional roller coaster makes him feel bad because he's been down this road before...Good luck.
2007-02-24 15:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-24 15:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey Corleone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a blokes point of view it sounds like you were used for a bit of passion.Something/someone else has turned up and he's trying his luck with you both.Tell him to 'do one' and move on.Theres more to life than sex!
2007-02-24 15:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sex isn't really the way to resolve an issue.
Sounds like he wants to dump you anyway.
2007-02-24 16:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by sparkle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes its over-you sound like to much hard work, and y the hell would u sleep wiv some1 to resolve things, er try talkin!!
2007-02-24 15:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by BscHons 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you wanted to go see him and have sex to resolve it?? sex wont fix it seems hes lost interest
2007-02-24 15:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but it sounds like he is letting go the cowardly way, hope you find what your looking for.
2007-02-24 15:48:17 · answer #11 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋