I had an intense relationship about 5 yrs. ago. We dated for about 3 years, but ended in heartbreak on my end. Now, I'm dating a really great girl, but the way things are going mirror the old relationship. She had broken up w/ her bf 2 weeks before we started hanging out. Her friends said she was emotionally checked out way before then, but I have my worries bc what happened to me in the past. Am I overthinking/worrying over nothing?!
2007-02-24 07:05:52 · 6 answers · asked by spartan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you are, a ton of relationships are ruined because one partner is either a worrier, or too insecure.
2007-02-24 07:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She picked up with you 2 weeks after the break-up... You're the rebound guy... At this point she probably doesn't know what she wants .... and you seem to be OK for now. If you're not comfortable with the relationship now ... how far do you let it continue?? Also, are you being over-critical?? Are you seeing problems that really aren't there? If the problems are real... then be honest with her and tell her. Make your decision to leave or stay from there.
2007-02-24 15:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no two relationships are alike. just like all people are not alike.
everyone will go thru some similar experiences...did that been there, uno? but you have to decide that this person youre with now is not the same as the one before. perhaps the 'similarities' might cause you to back off...which will cause distance in your current relationship...cause doubts, cause insecurites....a cycle begins. move forward positively. peace
2007-02-24 15:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry...but the answer of this question without knowing u and her is difficult...but u can do something better....don't let her to win this game and always make yourself power full and ready for breaking...
and if some day she break the relation ship u will not losing anything...because before all thatgame u make yourself safety.
2007-02-24 15:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not your ex girlfriend and you can not compare her to your ex or you will lose her
it is NEVER a mistake to love, and if you are considering this to be a mistake you are holding back your feelings, and dooming the relationship from the start.
if you can not trust yourself to care for this girl let her go so she can find someone who does
2007-02-24 15:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please guard your heart.
You never need to start a new relationship until you let your heart mend for at least 6 months. She didn't wait for the six months. Be careful.
2007-02-24 15:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by happy_southernlady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋