I am used to sleeping alone and I sleep very well. Whenever I plan to sleepover at my boyfriend's place or him at mine, we both wake up every 2 or 3 hours all night long. It is like a series of short naps. However when I all asleep with him without planning it, like on a couch orin bed, I sleep like a baby. I enjoy spending time with him but I just can't seem to sleep straight though the night, and as a result, I am sleepy all day long as though I spent the night up. Please tell me how I can help this.
2007-02-24 07:04:32 · 15 answers · asked by komguepcr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention that we both just sleep. No kissing and cuddling and midnight "quickies". So this has nothing to do with having sex.
2007-02-24 07:45:10 · update #1
Don't sleep with him then!!! If you two get married someday, you have the REST OF YOUR LIVES to sleep together.
Why would you want to stop sleeping by yourself NOW?
Enjoy the sleep you get by yourself while it lasts!!
2007-02-24 07:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you are excited to be with him and its comfortable to snuggle with him and do things. When you start having sex with him then you will get it all out of the way and then fall asleep. Dont worry, this is normal. If you really cant sleep with him until then, sleep in his bed and make him sleep on the floor. I did this with my ex sometimes, when i needed to be up early and when we hadn had sex but were kissing and stuff. When youre so close in the same bed, you cant stop yourself from cuddling and kissing and make yourself sleep.
2007-02-24 15:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by prettyflower17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you have been together for a few years, he has put on a few pounds, had a couple of beers and has been snoring all night - you will long just to get off for a couple of hours!
2007-02-24 15:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bexs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can never sleep in the same bed with anyone else being there, its caused me no end of trouble over the years. :~(
some people with this trouble will even have single beds in the same room...
2007-02-24 18:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by thunor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're with him you're not relaxed. Maybe you should stop the sleepovers for the time being. Then try and work out what your worries are and sort it out.
2007-02-24 15:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will both settle down its natural so don't worry just get on with it
2007-02-28 00:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will allways happen if you plan it,your getting worked up by what only you will know why.
2007-02-24 15:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by will 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping pill maybe?
2007-02-24 15:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Michael b 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you are not married in the eyes of God. I am willing to believe that you were brought up with the knowledge of God therefore you know that it is wrong in "God's eyes" to fornicate. No matter what the world says about sex, God will finsih the good work He has started in you.
2007-02-24 15:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by scooter 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
have all nite sesions our if you cant sleep play with him when he is sleeping have some fun
2007-02-28 10:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by J A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋