i have been with my girl for 7 months and she seems to be turning out to be a complusive liar. we got into a physical fight today, and last time when we got into a verbal fight i told her if she got caught up again it would be over for good. i dont know what to do she finally confessed to her mother that she has been creeping around with me and using her friend as a cover up. she is crying and telling me shes sorry and she will change which i have heard time after time(none of it seeming to be true)should i give her another chance or just end it???
2007-02-24 06:56:17 · 12 answers · asked by redd112288 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I understand you are mad but the answer to this question is follow your heart. I mean plenty of people can tell you to end it cause it seems as though she hasn't changed like she said she would or that if you two argue alot then you should end it but only you know for sure how things should go.Only you know what is right for you. I mean are you two ever happy together? Is she a good person? Do you love her? Certain issues have to come into play for you to know if you should stay with this girl or not. So I think you should take some time out for yourself and really think about what it is you want. Once you have had time to clearly think then make your decision. Good luck!
2007-02-24 07:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it's a verbal fight.... now it's a physical fight.... What's next?? Knives and guns?? Time to find someone who won't lie to you constantly. You told her it would be over for good if she lied to you again.......was that a threat, or did you really mean what you said?? If you stay with her... she's not going to take what you say seriously from here on out.
2007-02-24 07:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. The longer you wait, the more painfull it will be once you decide to quit. Sure, it's going to be painfull, no matter what. 7 months, that's not very long, it's going to be much easier to end it now then when you are together for several years. You gave her another chance and she blew it. Don't give her another chance now, she should have taken you seriously the first time, which she obviously didn't do...
2007-02-24 07:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by inesp01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree Scoundrel. you may supply a minute or 2 for a poorly wound watch, yet 7 minutes in no longer suited. And your logic is right on course. via the 4th date it is going to ba an hour you would be waiting looking like the twerp. good call my buddy. I even tend to be very stingy whilst it is composed of 2nd possibilities. If it became into significant to her she could have been there 10 minutes early, no longer 7 minutes late. i would not supply this woman yet another danger to flow away you status there. flow away her the place she is.... dumped.
2016-10-01 22:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by erly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a liar... always a liar. People don't just change. Do not take her back. Second chances are only given to people who deserve them.
2007-02-24 07:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by CityGirl21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better you found out now that she's lying crying and yelling all the time...she's still a baby and it's time to grow up...TIme to move on* You're not feelin the vibe anymore when it comes to her...Tell her you both need to move on..it's not meant to be if you're fightin all the time* Not good*
GOODLUCK*
2007-02-24 07:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly speaking, i dont think shes going to change. Shes lied that many times, and who knows if she wont do it again? I think you should end it. If she keeps lying, its almost as an indication shes not exactly in love. My advice is to talk to her.
2007-02-24 07:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this situation already lead you two to a physical confrontation, I would say end it. there is more than the eye is seeing. y would she be hiding around just to see you. honestly i think this relationship is not worth it.
2007-02-24 07:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by anjelika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way too much lying and drama....time to move on...once the fists start flying it's time to go..good luck
2007-02-24 07:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.once a liar, always a liar.
2007-02-24 07:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by Blabbity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋