why is it that when u im someone with the intention of just having a conversation must it always turn in to something sexual?
2007-02-24 06:49:44 · 4 answers · asked by kyamar06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first off, if you are im someone you don't know you will run that risk.
You also have to realize that there are about 10 times as many guys on here looking to chat than there are girls.
They know they can ask you anything dirty or sexual, and see how you react.
If you don't like it, they will move on and try another girl.
they don't have to worry about walking down the street and you recognizing them or have to worry about ever meeting you, so to them it doesn't matter how they talk to you, disrespectful or not.
If you were meeting them face to face, they would be well mannered, funny, sincere and try to impress you.
IM takes all that away.
Also, alot of the "boys" you IM, may not be boys at all.
Could be 40 + year olds with beer bellies and hairy backs.
How would you know?
Go out and find guys to talk to, and get out of the chat, IM stuff.
2007-02-24 07:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what I'm saying. I try to just chat, they ask " what do you have on" or something freaky like that. One time this girl, now tried me. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against women dating women, It's just not what I do. That's what they use it for I guess. It's not going to change either.
2007-02-24 14:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by sweetmocha07031984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let it. Learn to take the conversation else where.
2007-02-24 14:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best to do
2007-02-24 14:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋