How do you?

Question

ok so me n my boyfriend are planning to have sex but this is the first time for both of us n we are wondering how do we start it n if we should do it?

Answer 1

maybe it would be best for you to wait. lol but if you wanna ask again my email is [e-mail].

i'll talk to ya bout it on there but DEF not on here sorry lol

much love!

bayley! :)

Answer 2

Honestly and Truthfully, i dont think you should do it. Do you think you will be with this guy in the next ten years? If not then i wouldnt give away your virginity to him. If you 100% without ANY doubt love and care about him no matter what then okay. I would wait until marraige because if yall wait that long, you know that yall truly love each other, and sex doesnt matter,. After yall do it your relationship might just rely on it. Like he may not like you anymore but he'll think to himself"but that sex sure felt good" and he'll keep you around for a little while longer.

If you do decide to do it...

ALWAYS put lotion. In the beginning, if you will, (when you begin to feel horny) rub it on his penis. This will help it go in smoother adn less rough. First time sex feels good but it kinda hurts the first time. Shave your legs and take a good shower. I would wax down there if I were you. Have clean sheets and dont do it in the dark. Dim light is always best because it is romantic but at the same time you can see what your going for.

Im not trying to sound pushy but i really dont think you should.
Goodluck

Answer 3

Hi there. Realize that you are the only person who will know if the time is right. Many people who had sex at a young age do admit that they should have waited. The first time will stay with you all your life.For most women, it is rather a disappointment. With sex comes responsibility and many teens are not ready for the emotions, thought processes, STD, and pregnancy issues. Those that wait, tend to have the maturity for these issues. Use condoms correctly. If you are questioning yourself, that in itself is a signal that the time isn't right. Take care of you because you are worth it.

Answer 4

Well first you need to ask yourself some questions.
1. What are the risks?
2. How old am I?
3. Is it worth it?
Now that you have asked yourself those questions and you have decided to do it then your next part of your question wat how do we start. Well have you ever seen a movie when they started to do it? Its always different for every couple. My husband and I have a different way than the couple across the street or a couple in California. You'll figure it out! Dont worry and Good Luck!!

Answer 5

You cant plan to have sex for the first time. It is something that will come to both of you when you are both ready. You cant rush to do something like that, or it will really suck and you will wish that it had never happened.

Answer 6

If you are wondering if you should... you should NOT. When you're ready, you won't need someone else to tell you that you are. So wait to worry about the how until you really are ready. That's one of those things that really just comes naturally when the time comes.

Answer 7

no you shouldn't do it, but I'm not in a position to criticize. Making out is a good way to start, having a movie on at the time (depending on what kind) can add a little bit of relaxation b/c its not utter silence and its not corny music.

Answer 8

If you have to ask then NO, you're not ready!! When the time is right you won't have to ask, you'll know. Wait until you're older and in love with the guy.
And ALWAYS use a condom! =)
Tori

Answer 9

pre planning sex just seems to take all the fun out of it...why dont you let it rock? be spontaneous?

Answer 10

Be where you can be comfortable and give each other a few minutes of favors and it will go in nice and easy.