How can I stop thinking of girls as nothing more than stupid bimbos that are to be seen and not heard?

Question

I seriously want to advice on how to stop feeling like that. I feel this way so much I want to just treat them like property that's place is at home with the family cooking and cleaning

Answer 1

You can stop thinking this way by finding a smart woman to put you in your place. I am a woman that stays home raising my kids and cooking and cleaning because this is what I chose to do and my husband agrees. We do not want our kids in daycare being rased by who knows what kind of person with what kind of beliefs they could be passing to our child. This does not make me a stupid bimbo though or his "property".

Answer 2

Hi there. First examine where you picked up this behaviour. Examine your father's relationship with your mother. Replace a negative thought with two positive ones.What triggers these thoughts? I can only guess that perhaps that is how you might deal with rejection from the opposite sex, or you may not understand their behaviors they display to acquire their needs. Keep in mind that men are stronger and women many times have the disadvantage of being weaker and needing assistance. You can imagine how frustrating this can be for women. We live in a society where men can kill or impose harm at any time. I think we are the only species where the female can legitamately fear the male. I don't see this behaviour in any other animal except humans. Surrounding yourself with highly intelligent women who do not fit your perceived stereotypes might help. And yes, stereotypes do exist but then, it take many kinds of people to make a world.What is funny to me is that in the past, I felt the same way about men Stupid bimbos that are to be seen and not heard.Surround yourself with many kinds of women and girls. That way you won't suffer from tunnel vision. Look how many other countries treat women. In my opinion, it is women that civilize the world. If you are up to it, try cooking and cleaning at your home or even a friend's or relative's home for 3 days. Role switch. It may teach you how the other half lives. Of course, these days most households require double incomes to get by. Good luck, give yourself time but don't give up. With purposeful intention, you really can change a negative thought process. Today, even I realize that not all men are stupid bimbos that are to be seen and not heard.Lol. Have a new fresh start and if you make mistakes, so what? Try again.

Answer 3

Well, as much as I hate to say this, most girls do act like stupid bimbos so I don't blame you for that but, as for being seen not heard, that's just degrading. Try to get to know the girls that you meet. You'll see that they have personalities and style and opinions just as much as men do and they have every right to express it. They are NOT property to you or anyone else. And they most certainly do NOT belong at home cooking and cleaning unless they want to do that.

Answer 4

So, you feel this way about ALL women? You feel this way towards your mother, aunt(s), sister(s)? Because, if you feel this way towards them, why? Where did you feelings towards women comes from? What happened if someone said this towards your mom or any woman that you loved? You would feel like kicking their a-ss, wouldn't you? But, if this is the way you feel towards all women, then you are a f-ucking idiot who needs to be taught a lesson about the way you view women. You want to treat them the things you said that they should be treated, and, you may just find a woamn who would rather obey her husband, stay in the kitchen and be a housewife with no type of skill requirement that may be usefull for the outside world. You know, just in case your behind is in some type of accident in where you either died or you just can't work anymore and your insurance is not really helping you out what so ever. But, go ahead, find a woman who is submissive and would follow you like a freakin' dog.
You make me sick!

Answer 5

I don't know what to tell you about how to change, but I can see where you may have gotten it from. My fiance's son's mother (baby's momma) is a stripper, and he see's how men treat his mom, and he has no respect for women at all. He's only 7 years old! He walks around singing these vulgar rap songs about bitches and guns... it's awful. We only get him two or three times a year, if that.. so it's hard to discipline him too much while he's here. Maybe you had an abusive father figure, or something.

Answer 6

simple. open your eyes. take a look at what women have done earn equal rights. men have always been dominant in the world while women were viewed as "stupid bimbos that are to be seen and not heard." study women rights movements through out history and it'll give you a clear picture about what women have done. and study strong women today like Hilary Clinton. just take a minute to understand women's history and you'll learn to respect them.
if you don't (learn to respect them) then you're even more of a bastar* then I thought.

Answer 7

Well that sad because how would you feel if your mother or sister or, even your daughter was being treated like that. That would really change your feelings. I think maybe you should be gay if you can't cope with women. As a strong black women,I would have to say, you just need a little more exp and go up. Have a nice day. Good luck.!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

You can start by getting over yourself. You cannot possibly be the world's smartest, most handsome, most incredibly talented, richest man imaginable. You have no right to denigrate another human being into a non-thinking object, intended for your own pleasure!

Women and girls are, first and foremost, human beings that deserve to be treated with respect. Realize that, live it, think it, breath it, before you ever think about having a relationship with any member of the human race. Don't be ashamed to ask for help.

Answer 9

Is that the way your dad treats your mom? Does your mom and grandmother act like stupid bimbos to you? If so, you should probably seek help but not on Yahoo Answers.

Answer 10

Hey at least you are looking for help! I used to be the same way. Just actually have conversations with them, but talk about something you both like. you would probably find something of interest and start respecting women. once you can enjoy just having conversations you will respect them and think of them as equals like you should.