my dad is very protective of his mobile so i peeked through his sms messages and saw messages from an ?? nuber saying ''hi babe, how r u'' is my dad having an affair.. i love my parents so much!! pleaese.. i need the truth and should i tell my mam?
2007-02-24 06:17:57 · 18 answers · asked by dollyo7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would talk to your dad first. Tell him what you've found. Ask him what this means for you. It could be a friend, a passing fling, or something to end their marriage. If he looks like he's squirming for answers--he's having an affair. Ask him what he intends to do about it. Tell him what you want him to do about it.
Sometimes, just the fact that he's been found out could make it stop.
I wouldn't say anything to your mom just yet or maybe ever. It's your mom's and dad's problem. Unfortunately, you are going to have to pay the price for someone else's mistake if it is an affair.
2007-02-24 10:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At age 14 you have been around long enough to know that snooping is taboo and NEVER has a good ending . No matter what and where that message came from , it isn't any of your business . It's a breach of trust . For anybody to say " hi babe etc. is a big nothing . It's got to be a lot more explicit to start worrying about an affair . So act like an adult and practice keeping your mouth shut . If you have to blabber ask your dad so he can explain where it came from .
2007-02-24 10:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sing and say you were bullied, train a dog to do tricks or breakdance; it's all been done before. You need an original act that makes people sit up and take notice straight away then keeps them hooked till the end! You don't want to hear that nasty BZZZ! BZZZ! BZZZ! Also it needs to be something you can vary, rather than doing the same thing in the auditions, semi final and final, that would be dull. How about a stage version of free running?
2016-05-24 06:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell her she really needs to know but I would tell her when she is alone and yes their is a chance he maybe having an affair too but just tell your mom and tell her that if he is having an affair that you only told her because you wanted to make sure your dad is not going to give your mom some kind of STD that way your mom will under stand better and know that you are looking out for her too she will be thankfull i know I would .
2007-02-24 11:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm 13 and I have done the same thing. I couldn't hold the secret in too long so i asked my Dad to make sure i wasn't jumping to conclusions. When he got upset and said he had never had a message like that before from anyone in his life except my mom. I told my mom what i read...
2007-02-24 06:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by baby face. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont tell ure mom till u no the truth if u have 2 talk 2 ure dad if that doesnt work peek at his messages again if he is having and affair tell ure mom and maybe they can work it out or got 2 a theripist or somthang divorce is hard my mom and dad got a divorce but not for that reason and its hard so dont tell till u no the truth good luck!
2007-02-24 14:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you shouldn't go through your parents things but u did and this has upset you go to your dad tell him and tell him you did wrong but need an answer and yes your mother needs to know hope this work out with your family
2007-02-24 06:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by carol b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think you should tell your mum at all as far as you know it could be an innocent message and your gonna get your mum all upset for nothing what i would do is ask my dad and tell him i see the message and see what he says first good luck x
2007-02-24 06:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont jump to conclusions.
Get a hold of that phone number and ask the person some Q's if you have to or tell your mom that you love her but she needs to check it.
2007-02-24 06:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your dad about his opinion on affairs (ask him what he thinks). if he starts getting really defensive and sounds like he thinks you're accusing him of having one, talk to your mom. if your mom has a cell, it might be her. or it could be his mom checking up on him. you may get in trouble for looking but you might be able to help your parents' marriage - then again, you might not.
2007-02-24 06:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by vanilla angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋