i mean as in other country they test that whether they could live togather
2007-02-24 06:17:09 · 12 answers · asked by NIKS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
We are certainly messing with the term ''marriage''. What is a ''trial'' marriage..if it is trial, its not marriage, it is just a ''live-in'' relationship. But then, tell me, how many trials would you have before you confirm on someone. And along with that comes everything from AIDS to a bad bank account balance. Yes, there should be trials, but not trials as in ''marriage''. You could try looking into someone, having dates, having a relationship which is safe, and yet a trial of your interest towards that person...but a ''live in'' relationship ? No matter, how modern we are, somehow, that is such a wrong concept. Because in this, you are really not gaining anything....and its all a matter of chance. We are modern, so we shud be more educated over having relationships and having to share your own space with people...and ofcourse a live-in relationship, would be really ugly if you had to have a live-in trial with every girl in teh town, I would not even think of you, if you are into ''trial and error'' methods..of life. Marriage is a committment, think twice, know the person well, dates, mingling with that persons family, freinds, are all many different ways you get to know them,andofcouse, like the first answerer here, through that course you can know how she/he farts, belches or even choice of his underwears.....you can, without having to ''live in''....
good luck
2007-02-24 07:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by arya 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In pre-Christian days, many people practiced an act called "Hand Fasting." The couple would be bound by a ribbon around their wrists, and in front of family and friends give an oath to try to live together. They would then live together for a year and a day, and either during or at the end of this period, if it was found that they were incompatible, they could go their separate ways without any hard feelings. If they decided to stay together for good, then there would be a binding ceremony.
Personally, I believe in the "try before you buy" policy. Live with a person first and see if you can get along. If not, don't get married and just move on.
2007-02-24 06:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we would all agree that the best way to know your partner is to spend alot of time and actually live with them. All barriers come down then. The men start farting and belching, commode lids are left up, for women well they like to spend alot of time in the bathroom looking good (men hate that). They will hang stockings over the shower rod to dry. They worry about money being spent on frivilous items. With todays Divorce Rates being so high, Living together or A Trial Marriage is not a bad thing.
2007-02-24 06:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really love each other and really want to get married, no trial is needed. Being married means you are willing to work through any obstacles that may come your way- including discovering annoying habits your significant other may have. And by the way, studies have been done to show that couples who live together before marriage are MORE likely to get divorced. Also, I think that living together would take away the fun and excitement of getting married. You go and get married, youve already lived together, now what's the difference? A ring on your finger? I say wait!!
2007-02-24 07:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by KT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey wake up all marriages r only that i mean "TRIAL marriages"
as they go on and on just like trials in courts/clothes trial etc without ever having any truth about them.believe me if partners r true to each other even for 25% of there life than the divorce rate will go up by 75% so it really is trial and error
2007-02-25 01:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by ng2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My definition of trial marriage: "I told you I love you so much that I want to spend the rest of my life with you, and I want to stand before our family, friends, and God and promise to do that ... but give me a back door to flee from if I don't like it."
If you're looking at a trial marriage, either you haven't dated long enough to be sure if this is what you want ... or it isn't what you want, because your partner isn't willing to make a commitment and stand by it.
2007-02-24 06:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by JohnD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you really need a trail marriage if you really know.....short answer but to the point....You either know you want to be with someone or you wait and date...if you dont know you want to be with someone forever why date? or live together? As soon as you know this isnt the one for me time isnt going to change things....just prolong the inevitable
2007-02-24 06:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think, trial marriage can work. shows lack of commitment and determination. The marriage vows say,'' for better or for worse." so stick to it. Trial marriage is for egotistical people, who want the easy way out. In the twilight of life, they will be left lonely, begging for security.
2007-02-24 06:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by kumarcl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 09:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I think it's called "dating".
2007-02-24 08:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋