i have every thing ; i m beautiful , i m 19y , i m a pharmacy student , lovely ,popular,but i m abit fat , but he is without hair -mind is so beautiful- ,30 y ., work as salesman , i admit i love him ,he always ask me to change 4 him , it is so hard ,some times i feel i want 2 ,but i think he do not deserve....................../?
2007-02-24 06:13:32 · 7 answers · asked by hagar a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nobody has the right to ask you to change for them...nobody.
Change comes from within.
2007-02-24 06:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mathlady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you a bit fat when the two of you met and started dating? Well - - - if you were then don't give it a second thought! He liked you then the way you were. If he wants you to change now, tell him to take a hike! There are plenty of men out there that won't ask you to change a single thing about yourself; not if they truly love you!!!!!!!
Oh, you could tell him "grow your hair back and I'll drop some weight"! This ought to do the trick.
2007-02-24 14:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by lilbit48vmb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can't accept you for who you the way you are then the only thing you need to change is him and replace him with someone who is not worried about you changing anything. If you don't want to change then don't. Change for yourself when and if you're ever ready and know that you are beautiful just the way you are!
2007-02-24 14:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you do not change for anyone but yourself. Secondly, even if you changed something he wanted you to change, it probably would not stop there. Being in love is wonderful but you need to love yourself first. Find someone who likes you just the way you are!
2007-02-24 14:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by All This and Brains Too! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why change yourself for someone? That is the point in dating so that you find people to be yourself around.
2007-02-24 14:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him, you're 19, instead of wasting time with a 30 year old you should finish school and move on with your life.
2007-02-24 14:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and don't change for anyone.....good luck
2007-02-24 14:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋