I'm 21. Haven't done it yet. I'm in college. I get rejected whenever I ask girls out, and I get the nice guy line. Lately I realized I don't even have time for a girlfriend, but I simply want to get the girls in my dorm in the sac. How do you get a stranger to become a friend with benefits? Give me a timeline if you can. thanks
2007-02-24 06:13:26 · 15 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't figure this one out, forget it! You lack the instinct to pull a such thing off. Settle for "good boy" lifestyle, stay focus on school, get a degree, get in a serious relationsip, find a rat race career, buy a house, get married, have a kid, retire, and croak like a rat. It's better choice for you in long run and less disappointing as well.
2007-02-24 06:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the stupidiest things I've ever heard of. Why would anyone want to use sex like that? I mean it's suppose to be used between a man and a woman who love each other not just to be used as a pleasure. I hate that friends with benefits. I think it's really stupid and a good way to get a girl pregnanat or a girl getting pregant. You need to just wait until you fid that special someone. So what if your 21 well boo hoo your young. You need to keep your snake in the cage until you find someone you can do it special with not just to do it just because your afraid you'll de a virgin because you won't. I was 22 by the time I had my first time with a guy and I'm almost 28 and we were more then friends.
2007-02-24 14:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK the whole friends with benefits thing is stupid, plus you may break a girls heart. Get to know someone and then mabey you will get some action in the sac!!
2007-02-24 14:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh to be in your shoes... All you need is an old tart with lots of experience, the benefit of that is old hoochies aren't likely to drop a rug rat on you and it's nevr2late to drop by for a Booty Call. So fire up Match.com, Yahoo personals or Love@Aol and look at the menu there are lots of older gals looking for a young stud to devour with no strings attached, they call it Open Relationships, and can't get better benefits than that.
2007-02-24 14:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by rashawn4u2003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you aren't attractive enough for the type of girl you're looking for, then you need to lower your standards even more. But by doing that, who knows what you'll be doing it with. Honestly, just work on two things: 1. Your personality, don't be cocky, but don't be a insecure either. Confidence really helps when flirting. 2. Workout, girls really like guys to be athletic. Despite those though, you have to really think about what you're asking. You want to have basically a girl you can have sex with with no strings attached, honestly, I think thats not hard to find, but its really hard to initate that.. and it could really take a long time. You need to build a friendship with someone, and get them to really trust you. Then show them you aren't going to run around telling everyone.. theen maybe you can get that going.
2007-02-24 14:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Cooper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hahaha ... BENEFITS? is that what its called nowadays? ahahaha
do you really want just a friend to give you benefits? i mean, come on, honestly... being in a relationship is SOOOO much better. yeah, people will tell you otherwise but it really is. well, you are only 21. perhaps you are trying too hard. join a frat and see if you can partake in the sororiety girls. they are usually pretty easy. just wrapp up mr. peepers because you really don't want THOSE types of benefits that you get from random sex.
2007-02-24 14:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by curious_One 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but would like to know myself. I hate the nice guy line. I get that all the time. Maybe try just being compleatly honest and tell a girl what you want.
2007-02-24 14:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by chris k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right, a timeline.
obviously you need to chill out a bit about it. people don't work on timelines. also, few people who say 'do it' get laid.
try meeting people online - at least there people are honest about what they're looking for from the start - friends or relationships or fwb.
2007-02-24 14:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 21?
Go to bars and frat partys.
There will likely be plenty
of takers, if the taken is good!
2007-02-24 14:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by Cher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be yourself
treat poeple the way you want them to treat you
good luck on getting that girl in your sac
2007-02-24 14:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Universe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋