I love him.I know I do.He said to me "I Love You".I told him "I Love You".For a while,I thought this might be real. I still do think so. But, lately,he has been talking about this other girl who is "just a friend" and how "she calls 40 times a day"and "she gave a friendly kiss". He told me,he doesnt like her more than a friend.Should I believe him?He keeps saying that this girl keeps calling "just to say 'hi'" and constantly asks him to meet her someplace. He told me that he never goes. What should I do? I try to forget about him, but it is so hard. I love him so much. I always call just to hear his voice and then hang up without saying a word. He doesnt know it is me because I use "hidden id". Each Friday and Saturday, we talk online until like 1:00 am.Sometimes,he says that he has to go study a bit and will be back online pretty soon.He said that last night,and I waited over an hour,but he never came back on.I am pretty sure he fell asleep.PLEASE help me and tell me what I should do.
2007-02-24 06:08:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you think I should do? There is no way I can forget him. I know he has feelings for me, but I am not sure how strong they are. He looks at me with such love in his eyes, that I love him more and more. OH MY GOD, i absolutely LOVE him. PLease tell me what I should do. Is he a player, or is he serious??
2007-02-24 06:09:10 · update #1
If he is truly in love with you he should tell the other girl to quit calling him. If he can't do that, he shouldn't answer the phone when he recognizes her phone #.
It sounds like you are not sure you trust him. If you don't trust him, why don't you back off and see what happens. If it's you that he loves, he'll call. If he doesn't call you back, maybe he's moving on. Give him some space and see where you stand. That's not playing games, it's just laying things on the line.
2007-02-24 06:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the goal of a player is sex, just stop having sex with him. Tell him you want to wait and make sure the relationship is based on more than that. A player will try to convince you sex is necessary. Dont give in, if he loves you he will respect you and stay with you. A player will finally leave but make some other excuse other than sex as the reason.
also mere friends do not call other friends up 40 times a day just to say hi. Someone is lying somewhere.
2007-02-24 14:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are having these kinds of problems then your relationship is in trouble. If you are having doubts then those issues need to be confronted and resolved. If you still don't feel like you can trust him or you still feel like there is a problem and you are not able to reach a resolution, then you shouldn't be wasting your time with someone who's going to make you feel like that. Get a guy who makes you feel secure, warm and fuzzy, and you never, ever have to question his motives or what he may or may not be doing when you're not around.
2007-02-24 14:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by meezyfuh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down with him and have a long conversatin of what you mean to each other and of how this other person is affecting you and the relationship you have with him. if he really loves you then he should let you and the other person know that. he has to put a stop to the other girl from coming on to him, even if it means not having any contact with the other girl. if he really loves then he should be willing to loose this "friend' for true love.
2007-02-24 14:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by mrkramer5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wherever you are I'm sure there are millions of men. Friends don't give kisses and call 40 times a day. He can talk online to many people at once. Drop him.
2007-02-24 14:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tyree D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is great, but being plain quivering-jelly silly for another human being can have serious consequences. MAybe you need to take a break from this guy for while, date a few other guys and see that he's special, but maybe not THAT special.
2007-02-24 14:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by McPacman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he doesn't love you like you love him. If he keepts talking about this other girl then he's proably more interested in her. Sorry to have to tell you that but that's what it seems to me.
2007-02-24 14:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so easy!
Try cooling it off slightly
and see if he comes around,
if not Forget him and move on.
2007-02-24 14:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Cher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts so try your best not to be weak always forever think about yourself first. You don't need him.
2007-02-24 14:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by sonata14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say that your worried about this othewr girl and that you think that she falling for you but you worried about what he will do
2007-02-24 14:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by samantha d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋