i am having my 13th birthday party tomorrow and my boy friend is going to be there we haven't kissed but i really want to kiss him. any tips on how i should kiss him, where i should we in a house, where on his face (how long), and when during the party?
this is my first kiss and i want it to be perfect i really want to
please no one say you seam to young to kiss if you are asking this question
2007-02-24 06:03:20 · 5 answers · asked by blah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Control your saliva! No man likes to really be drooled on. Keep your lips in good shape. Rough, dry, chapped lips are no fun to kiss. Break out the lip balm and use it. You hear it every day but I’ll say it again, the fresher your breath the better.
The correct lip tension for kissing is quite an art. Too loose and you feel lazy and uninterested, too tight and you feel mean and tense.
Don’t surprise a new man with a kiss of overwhelming force and passion. It works in the movies because it’s in the script, for you at home it may come across as attempted date rape. It usually leaves the man longing for the closest exit. Yes, you may be burning with desire for him but you’ve got to slowly and carefully get his libido up to the same speed as yours.
Kissing isn’t just for the lips. Anywhere a man is particularly sensitive he likes to be kissed. When was the last time you kissed the nape of his neck, his wrist, his ears, his stomach.
Don’t try and figure out how sensitive his gag reflex is with your tongue while French kissing! The goal is to enjoy yourselves, not see how far down the back of her throat you can get your tongue.
Mix it up. Kissing in the same way for prolonged periods of time can get really boring. This isn’t a marathon for how long you can keep your tongue in her mouth. Mix up the long deep kisses with short soft ones on his forehead, his cheek, and her neck…and of course back to his lips.
Learn from the acting pros and don’t forget your hands. Ever wonder why women still swoon at the mention of Richard Gere’s name? The man is an ace kisser, he puts his whole body into it, and he uses his hands to coddle and caress a woman’s face, he run his hands through her hair, and leans into her with his hips. Ever watched Bull Durham? Check out Kevin Costner’s lip action (no, you don’t have to tell anyone, do your own private research man). In last year’s Cold Mountain Jude Law gives Nicole Kidman such a dazzling kiss as he runs off to war that she literally goes weak in the knees. That’s the kind of kissing action I’m talking about.
Don’t work too hard. Kissing is for fun and pleasure, if you’re breaking a sweat from effort (not from chemistry) you’re working too hard. Sit back, relax and let him come to you at times…don’t always be chasing him with your tongue and your hands. Learn to give and take. See what he can teach you.
Don’t go frenching his ears unless you know for a fact she loves it. Some women adore big wet kisses in their soundboards, but too many others HATE it. Don’t ruin a great mood by doing something that will gross her out.
Do tug gently on his earlobes with your teeth (again gently) when you kiss his neck and while you’re at it why not whisper a compliment or wicked suggestion?
Be brave enough to ask for pointers when getting to know a new man. Remember kissing is a matter of personal taste, what one man likes isn’t going to always work for another, but if you hear a particular suggestion more than once you know it’s something you’ve got to work on.
Leave him wanting more. Don’t kiss him so much that her lips are raw and his face aches – leave him wanting more of you, not less (especially in the beginning). Hope this helps you out.
2007-02-26 06:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Army Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing happy birthday for tomarrow! Um...now let's see here...the best place to have your first kiss is away from everyone...just because you want it to be special and not really share it with anyone during the time. So I wouldn't suggest your room...because then he might be uncomfortable...let's see here...i would probably suggest along the lines like outside behind a tree AT NIGHT WHEN THERE'S STILL A LITTLE BIT OF LIGHT...maybe like when the sun sets...it's really romantic...i actually had my first kiss outside by a tree too :-D...when you two r standing there looking at eachother...I would suggest this...before you kiss part your lips just a little bit...not alot...then let him make the first move...don't do anything before he does...if he starts to lean forward THEN you can make your move...i would suggest rapping your arms around his neck and then stare up at his eyes...and then close your eyes and let him come to you...but for your first kiss just to keep it nice and sweet...i suggest a 3-5 second kiss...no longer...but if you feel like you can do it...then try for like a 10+ sec kiss...and also i don't suggest any tongue use on your first...just keep it innocent...
i hope this helped you,
bye!
p.s. HAPPY BIRTHDAY
2007-02-24 14:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by @$4!33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could say buy and do a quick kiss on the mouth, and probably not in front of your parents you want to have the buyfriend later.
2007-02-24 14:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by samantha d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can kiss him anywhere!! you can u kiss him on the cheek for a few seconds or if you kiss him on the lips just puck ur lips and *muah* thats it no biggy HAPPY COMING BIRTHDAY!! i hope you have fun!!
2007-02-24 14:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just do a quick kiss on the cheek.he probably wouldn't mind that.
2007-02-24 14:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by zachary_stein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋