2007-02-24 05:51:33 · 13 answers · asked by Kel's info 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes!! I eloped and told my mother later. I am not sure she ever got over it. If you don't tell her, it will only make things worse.
2007-02-24 05:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by BROWNIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I believe that ur mom has the right to know the woman u r marrying. But if she doesn't like her or feel that she is not the one for u,then tell her not to attend ur wedding cuz this is ur big day and u don't want noone to ruin it for u or ur wife. go with what ur heart and ur conscience tells u. If u love this woman don't let noone stand in ur way after all u r the one thats going to marry her and live with her. Don't let ur mom interfere in ur relationship because sometimes family does destroy a beautiful marraige. Best wishes to u n ur love one!
2007-02-24 17:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Beba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. Tell her. Your mom deserves the respect to know and your wife is going to be your new family. It will look really bad on your part if you conceal that. It will look like you don't care enough about your new wife to tell your mom the truth.
2007-02-24 16:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by sugr302 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of respect for your wife to be then YES. Don't start keeping things from her or your 'wife' may get the idea that your not proud of her or having something to hide. This is something good (isn't it) so share with everyone and let your 'wife' know what she means to you.
2007-02-24 14:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by aza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell her even if you don't invite her. My fiancee and I have the same problem with his mom and we told her we were getting married but also let her know that she wasn't invited. We let her know why she wasn't invited and even though shes really hurt and mad it was something we needed to do to insure that our wedding went the way WE wanted and we also avoid any problems she would have inevitably caused. So even if you don't want her there at least let her know before someone else does.
2007-02-24 15:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by hotmamainmi1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell her. Even if your mom doest like her. Your mom is not the one marrying her so dont worry. I think that you should do what your heart feels and you must be doing the right thing. Good Luck
2007-02-24 14:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the sooner the better. if she doesn't like your bride to be she will be looking for any excuse to blame her for everything. so don't hand her any ammo by not letting her know you are getting hitched!
and once you put a ring on that pretty little finger, remember your first priority will be your wife, your mother will be secondary. sometimes mothers and sons have trouble with that one!
2007-02-28 02:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely!
2007-02-24 14:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by sjlova86 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because if she finds out after the wedding she may not like her even more.
2007-02-24 14:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should still tell her out of respect to her and ask her to respect your decision to marry this woman.
2007-02-24 15:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋