my mom has a bf that hasn't been calling her for the last 1-2 weeks. we got him stuff for valentines day, but he never got us anything. she has told him that she loves him but he has never texed back to her. he talks about getting married but never does anything about it. what should my mom do?
2007-02-24 05:50:12 · 24 answers · asked by softball expert in da house!!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is really your mom's business, I know you love her and feel her pain but you should let her deal with this in the manner that she chooses. Relationships at her (our) age is really not the same as the high school stuff you are probably used to. She will get through it, one way or another.
2007-02-24 05:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by boxersgirlbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a one-way relationship. It won't matter how much your Mom cares for him if he's not really interested. You didn't say how long they've been together, but unless they were madly in love and are just suddenly having problems, I'd say any guy who doesn't take the easiest opportunity to be romantic (V-Day) to show he cares with some sort of effort, is a lost cause in that relationship. Your Mom should move on and let him know that she needs someone who puts the same effort into the relationship as her. Otherwise she's wasting her time and asking for heartache. Set her up a personal ad!
2007-02-24 05:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Quetzal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom and bf need to have a long sit down discussion about their future. Nothing beats uncertainty quite like laying one's cards on the table and seeing how things play out. If there is no honest communication between mom and bf that is a clear sign that their relationship ain't long for the lasting.
2007-02-24 05:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by rashawn4u2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart u shouldn't be worrying about that.Your mom should know that it's over between them.He couldn't of been any clearer.People that love each other they don't go weeks without calling.They really don't miss Valentines day.What he was telling her about marriage was words.Just words.His action are what she should be looking at.His actions say it all.Good luck to your mom.And u go girl with your softball. Thats the only thing u should be worrying about at your age.What u are going to wear the next morning to school and how your going to kick butt in your game.
2007-02-24 05:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think this is true love. What do you think your mom's bf wants from your mom most? He might be wanting something from marriage- if that's mostly what he's talking about! So tell your mom to try and talk to him and ask for any plans they will be making for the marriage. Get things straight, you know what I mean?
2007-02-24 05:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the dirt bag, he isn't worth the time of day. Tell her to stop messaging him, don't talk to him and cut him off completely, until he decides what he wants. Her heart is not something he can pick up whenever he has the time. He's using her and your in this situation and there is no reason to take that abuse!
2007-02-24 05:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jillie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to let him go. he obviously doesn't care enough about her. going 2 weeks without calling her is not right. a good indication of future behavior is past behavior. and in the past he has shown that he is not willing to put her first and make her feel adored by him. so its best to have an absent exboyfriend than have an absent husband. she deserves better and should not lower her expectations to meet what he is willing to give.
2007-02-24 05:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by tah dumb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is not get too attached. with most men you are lucky if he remembers the V-day gift for the girlfriend much less the whole family. I suggest that you let them see where their relationship is going and dont get too attached to him, it sounds like he may not be the right guy.
2007-02-24 05:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mendi8a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Mom to get a new boyfriend or none at all!
2007-02-24 05:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him - why are BOTH of you after this guy? He obviously just wants to play hide the chile with your mom and possibly get kinky with both of you. Stay away from him!!!
2007-02-24 05:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by ejc_360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋