I love him.I know I do.He said to me "I Love You".I told him "I Love You".For a while,I thought this might be real. I still do think so. But, lately,he has been talking about this other girl who is "just a friend" and how "she calls 40 times a day"and "she gave a friendly kiss". He told me,he doesnt like her more than a friend.Should I believe him?He keeps saying that this girl keeps calling "just to say 'hi'" and constantly asks him to meet her someplace. He told me that he never goes. What should I do? I try to forget about him, but it is so hard. I love him so much. I always call just to hear his voice and then hang up without saying a word. He doesnt know it is me because I use "hidden id". Each Friday and Saturday, we talk online until like 1:00 am.Sometimes,he says that he has to go study a bit and will be back online pretty soon.He said that last night,and I waited over an hour,but he never came back on.I am pretty sure he fell asleep.PLEASE help me and tell me what I should do.
2007-02-24 05:47:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you think I should do? There is no way I can forget him. I know he has feelings for me, but I am not sure how strong they are. He looks at me with such love in his eyes, that I love him more and more. OH MY GOD, i absolutely LOVE him. PLease tell me what I should do. Is he a player, or is he serious??
2007-02-24 05:49:14 · update #1
If you are like most people, try this:
Engineer every possible type of social situation with your friends and see if he reacts they way you would like. Rather than attempting an actual course of action or making a decision, you can invent 200 reasons for why you ought to keep toying with him.
If you are really lucky, he will end up with permanent psychological or emotional damage. This way you won't even have to bother yourself with such a difficult decision. You might even get back to the more pressing and important issues in your life, whatever they may be.
2007-02-24 05:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by El Gringo 237 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.....if he is truly in love with you, then he should leave this girl completely since it upsets you so. I come from a family with strong moral values and when you date someone in a serious relationship, you do not do anything could jeopardize it in any fashion. If he senses you are upset (and you questioning and crying over this means you ARE) so he should drop it altogether! If he values you as a friend (a girlfriend in this case) and wishes to have you for a long term basis, then he should do the proper thing and leave her be. He is toying with your emotions otherwise. It's not fair for you to stand by the side and seeing him getting all these calls and innuendos from that ex and watch you fall apart. He's not being fair or nice to you in that regard.
Good luck..I hope your heart will make the right choice.
=)
2007-02-24 13:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by indyhype 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask the question, is he a player or is he serious, odds are he's a player and you know it don't want to admit it.
you cn certainly forget him - and the sooner the better so you can have fun with a nice guy who will be real with you.
why in the world would he keep telling you about this girl? If he's not interested in her he wouldn't pick up her calls and sh'ed have stopped calling by now. he must be doing something to keep her interested...
it's creepy that you call him just to hear hear his voice. you shoulp check yourself before you wreck yourself and stop that craziness.
move on girl! it's hard but you just gotta bite the bullet and do it!
2007-02-24 13:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'm not going to lie to you, I stopped reading after you said that you "call to hear his voice and then hang up without saying a word." First of all, he sounds like a douche. Secondly, I think you sound a bit stalker-ish.
The best thing you can do either way, is to just ignore him for awhile. If he wants to be with you, then he'll make it happen. If he doesn't, well...
But don't call him and hang up anymore. That's just... no.
2007-02-24 14:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by yumyum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably a player. the last girl that hung all over my man slept with him the second I turned my back. also quit with the hangup calls...he probably knows it's you. you'll scare him away.
2007-02-24 13:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by tara b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a P.I.M.P.
2007-02-24 13:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by JK47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋